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Loving the freedom to say what's in my mind, without the fear of being called nasty stepmother...

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I am so glad to find this site, and I am so glad I am now with people who can relate to my situation. I really hate being a step mother, it's always a balancing act all the time. I cannot make any decision without considering the 2 step kids. Having no freedom in this sense really suffocates me. Before I married my husband, I was so positive that the relationship between us all will work. So I did my best and always put myself last so no one will have a problem with me.

Help, what shall I do if / when she (SD) comes back?

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One of the SD had a boyfriend and she had not come for a few months and now that they had split up, she is now going to come back. I don't know what to do, it will be twice the trouble again. I am so helpless because I know it is her right to come back and I have no right to stop it. I could not stand her at all, she is very disrespectful, very selfish, very ungrateful,very lazy and so full of herself. It's very hard because I have to adjust to the situation again, I have nowhere to go, my family and friends are so far away.