The Christening
:? So here is my dilemma, I hope lots of you will give me your advice...
My soon-to-be-husbands Ex (who I hate with a passion) has announced that she would like their 3 year old daughter to be Christened next year.
He told her that while he is happy for their daughter to be christened he would need to consult with me as I'm his priority and he knows it would be difficult for me to stomach watching them play happy families.
She assured him that I am invited to go and she will be bringing her lesbian girlf (she swaps and changes - quite a messed up cookie) but I am 100% sure that the whole thing is her attention seeking and game playing as he told her we are looking to get married next year.
So do I put on a brave front and attend the christening?
Or do I let him know that while I wont stop him from being involved that I cannot cope with being there?
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First of all, if it is not
First of all, if it is not soon at all, don't stress too much over it.
Second, if it does happen, you need to go, and before going you need to talk to DH and let him know that you don't feel comfortable with them "playing family" (AKA pictures together and stuff like that) no need for that. You two can take pictures with SD and then BM can take pictues with her.
I think the whole event is stupid, but that is just my opinion. Is your DH religious, does he want her to do that? or is he just complying?