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My DH and his two personalities>>>Mr. Luva Luva to Mr. Jack*ss

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Submitted by 4sremlap on Sun, 03/18/2012 - 6:04pm

Does anyone else have a DH that seems like one person when his kids are here for visitation and when they go back to thier BM turns into another?? My situation is him being a total ass and defensive over correcting his kids and sometimes ganging up on me with them while they are here and then when they leave and teh damage is done, we sit and talk and he agrees that his behavior was wrong and then agrees to take corrective action when they get back and never does and then gets mad at me for reminding him(politely I swear) and blows up on me for bringing it up??????????

Step-mother for 6 years now ....

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Submitted by 4sremlap on Sat, 03/17/2012 - 9:07pm

Just found this site when looking for answers in dealing with my stress and frustration which no to mention is also putting alot of strain on me and my husbands 6 year marriage( But with his ex's constant harrassment and control feels like 1..)..Im 27 and my husband is 37...he has two boys now 9 and 16(when I came into the picture they were 3 1/2 and 10)...Im really looking for answers of how to deal with the ex trying to control what I am allowed to do FOR thier kids and how Im allowed to discipline them etc..I fight with my husband alot about letting them get away with constantly lying an