Does anyone else have a DH that seems like one person when his kids are here for visitation and when they go back to thier BM turns into another?? My situation is him being a total ass and defensive over correcting his kids and sometimes ganging up on me with them while they are here and then when they leave and teh damage is done, we sit and talk and he agrees that his behavior was wrong and then agrees to take corrective action when they get back and never does and then gets mad at me for reminding him(politely I swear) and blows up on me for bringing it up?????????? Have brought this up to him and he denys being any different on these occassions, but it's awful funny that we are "perfect" when the kids arn't here and then WWIII the day they get back...the first words out of my mouth the day they get back can be nothing more than ,"Have you started dinner yet or do you want me to?" and immediate oger will respond with the high pitched whiney comback along the lines of something like, "Gosh darn!! Can't you see Im trying to do something...blah blah blah"........Wasn't I trying to help? Gee, I thought so-could be wrong though.