Part 4: The first night without fiance'
I have admit I missed him being there. Part of me is glad that he has finally made that transition, however I really did miss him last night. I couldn't sleep and all through the night I asked for God to give me strength to continue to handle things. He has been extra nice to me, making sure things are paid, and that my son and I have everything we need. I'm sure that's guilt. He still insists that he is coming back to me after he ends things with her the right way....whatever that means. This is one of the hardest things I've done...please continue to pray for me guys...thanks.
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Is he serious??!!!!!
De inimico non loquaris sed cogities.
He is coming back to you AFTER he ends things with the ex-wife the RIGHT way????What the hell is the right way?? Going back to her and his kids and doing it all over agian to achieve what outcome??? OH SWEETIE....this guy is seriously messed up in the head. I know you miss him, that is a natural thing for you to feel, but you have done the right thing. It is commendable that he has made sure things are paid but dont let him buy you. Waiting on this guy would be doing such a disservice to you and your son. You found the strength to send this guy packing and I know that took alot of courage and alot of tears but please keep pushing forward,there truly is so much more out there for you. Dont worry about prayers for you and your son,as I am sure we all keep you both in them often.Hugssss
Stephanie
Wow.
Not so good. Although, how long have you two been together.
We my BF left Darkness that night, I thought that was it. But the next day, she guilted him so bad that he returned home. I was crushed, though I understood. Needless to say DK acted like the perfect wife after that. I worked with BF. I had to see him everyday knowing he was going home to her. We admitted we had strong feeling for eachother. When I would ask him, "what do you think is going to happen". He would just say he is waiting for "the wheels to fall off." One night she was drugged from the dentist trip and she asked him not leave her until she got her new teeth put in. I figured, forget it.
Little did I know that two weeks after he left her that first time, He would leave her for good.
I can honestly say, if he when back to her again after that, it would have been over. That's why I ask, How long have you two been together? This does not sound right.
Thinking of you, Jo
Not considering going back
We had been together 4 about 1 yr. & 3 months......I am not going 2 take him back or see him.....even when he figures out she wasn't worth it....while I'm fighting 2 be strong, its extremely hard 2 let go....we did everything together.
I am so sorry
that you are going through this. I can't help but think that this has happened for a reason. There must be something better out there for you and he had to get out of the way in order for you to find it. Hang in there, I know the nights are lonely but we are here for you.
~Evil
Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius
* Bless your heart*
Perhaps you have come to a crossroads in your life~learned all that you needed to from each other and it's time to find your true destiny...
Love isn't supposed to hurt, nor take from you the essence of self. It's supposed to help and not hinder and is supposed to bring out the very best in someone. By handling things the way that he chose to, it's clear that he has no respect for anyone...Not you, not the other party and certainly not for himself or whichever relationship that he defines himself with.
Not an easy choice to make with so much emotion invested. It's obvious that it doesn't make you happy. You DO deserve to be happy and you're in my prayers that you'll find it soon!
*big hug*
~Tynk~
I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy.
J. D. Salinger
I am having a hard time.....
I cut all of my hair off last night....it felt liberating, like I'm starting my life over again....I felt better when I woke up this morning....especially after I read comments......Today is easier than yesterday and tomorrow I know will be easier than today...I know I deserve better
Day by Day
I am so sorry for you. When I told my BF what you BF did, he couldn't believe it. There is no such thing as "going back to end it right".
You do need to get strong and survive. Listen to music that makes you feel strong. Stay away from the mushy tunes. Get angry and get it out.
We are here for you. Use us to help you through.
Best wishes & hugs. Jo
My advice
Is probably obvious, but KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. It's so hard dealing with breakups no matter how sure we are about them. The more busy you can keep yourself, the faster time will pass, and time really does heal the heart. Stay busy with friends as much as possible. Have a good friend on standby to call anytime of day or night when you need to.
I know it hurts, it will get better... and one day you'll look back from the better life you will be having and not have any sadness about him!