BM's boyfriend gave SS15 Pot, and smoked it with him!
Ya know, the subject says it all. My SO is beside himself. We found out in a text (program on phones to "spy" on the kids) that BM's boyfriend got pot for SS15 and smoked it with him!
SO wants to call CPS. We already have his kids full time because BM is a drug abuser. She has been supposedly clean for months. She has tests from her clinic she gives to SO so she can have visitation with her kids.
This is just a punch to the stomach. First BM might be providing cigarettes to SS15, and now THIS!
Are these people parents? :?
SO is beside himself. He already caught SS15 with pot a few weeks ago and made him write a report about it, took away ALL electronics and contact with friends. What else is there to do?
Currently, SO and SS15 are on
Currently, SO and SS15 are on vacation. I am guessing he wants to wait until they get back. I will definitely tell him the police should be involved. Yes, if SS15 gets caught in the cross fire, it might be a wake up call.
wait.! What?! your ss gets
wait.! What?! your ss gets caught with pot and STILL gets a vacation?! My ass would have been hiding in the biggest tree in the yard with adults with belts dancing around the base of it ready to bust my rear! (slight exaggeration lol)
No, they left on vacation
No, they left on vacation Sunday and I found the text last night.
I have been debating on this all day. If SO decides to go the "passive" route, I just might go the more "aggressive" route.... as in what has been suggested here.
I won't yell and scream, but I have to think of my 2 bio-daughters. They are still young and I don't want this to be a recurring theme around them. They already have an alcoholic father.
Thank you all for your help!