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What would you do? Stay or move on?

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Submitted by fireemtmom7 on Sun, 10/18/2009 - 4:15pm

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Blended Family Issues

So SD told her BD last night that she was done with him as long as I was in the picture. I feel really guilty that I am standing in the way of my DH having a relationship with his BD. What do I do? She said some very nasty mean things about me and her dad.

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Submitted by Most Evil on Sun, 10/18/2009 - 6:52pm

I would ask DH what he wants. Heaven help him if he says the wrong thing, ya know?

No way would a child he hasn't seen in years change my life, but if he wants it to change his? That's his decision.

I have a feeling he will pick you honey, but put it to him!!!
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Submitted by Lee1973 on Sun, 01/17/2010 - 3:13pm

I would have a heart to heart with your husband and go from there.no fighting. she is jealous. make a plan with hubby.

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Submitted by primin on Thu, 01/21/2010 - 9:15am

Sometimes the best thing you can do is know when to throw in the towel. However, it's also the greatest gift you can give a child by showing them how to have a healthy, loving and committed relationship.

No-one can answer that question for you. Sit down with your DH and have a serious heart to heart then run to counseling if you can afford it.

Good luck!