I never met the BM yet and after last night I'm pretty sure I'm NOT going to be rushing into it cause her two remarks were a bit too sarcastic for me.

About a week ago, BM was texting and calling FDH's cell throughout the day. She text him in the evening after she called and he didn't answer and said, "Why the heck aren't you answering?" He responded with something like, "I don't think it's fair to my future wife that I constantly talk to my ex." She said she wouldn't call again. Don't know if she ever did though. I snooped into his phone to see if they were talking. Before I go further, a week before Halloween my FDH asked me if I wanted to go Trick or Treating with his kids and I said no because I go with my twin niece's and their mom plus I wasn't thrilled of the idea of meeting the BM. On the 30th, day before Halloween, she text him and said remark #1, "I wanted to remind you Halloween starts at 6 because you probably forgot already. I guess you can be "future wife" but that would just mean I'd have to pass out candy instead." I busted out laughing when I see the future wife in quotes and at that point I wasn't sure if she was being sarcastic or bitchy sarcastic. He didn't respond or he deleted the response. Then she says something later on that day about if he was going to the dance thing for his kids, he said, "I can't." He told me on the ride home after Trick or Treating that she asked him when we were getting married. He told her no date was set yet which is true. Then he was on his phone texting and she says remark #2, "I thought SHE didn't like it when you text people..." He says, "I'm texting her.." and goes back to texting me. My first reaction was, "Wow.. sarcastic bitch much?" ANd I told a friend of mine and she felt the same way and said I should avoid her for now cause she sounds a bit bitchy.

I think I'll avoid her.. defintely. I don't need baby mama drama quite yet.