My SDIL brother has been told he has stomach cancer.He is only 22 years old.He has always been so nice to me and nothing like his sister(My SDIL).I pray for the family and pray for healing for her brother.SDIL has always been soooo mean to me and my D. SDIL mother is very hateful also to me and this is her son, So I am disengaged from both of them because of the hurt she has cause me but I feel hurt for DIL and her mom .Now I dont know if I should say anything to SDIL or send a card. What the best advice. You can read in my other posts of the hateful mean acts she and my SS had done to me.I have been very nice to them but it has always made more hateful towards me.So i try to avoid them the best I can. So what should I do? What would Yall do now? Thanks !