I HAVEN'T BEEN ON THIS BOARD FOR AWHILE ...BUT JUST LIKE TO SHARE A FEW THINGS AND GET THINGS OFF MY CHEST. I HAVE DISENGAGE FOR OVER 2 AND HALF YEARS AGO ! I HAVE TO SS WHICH ARE IN THEIRS 30'S AND MY DH HAS 7 GRANDCHILD FROM THEM. THE CAUSE OF MY DISENGAGE WAS OVER MY SD-IN-LAW, HAVING HER WAY AND MAKING A FOOL OUT OF HERSELF AND SHOWING US NO RESPECT WHICH , I WAS SO ANGRY BECAUSE ALL WE SHOW WAS LOVE AND SUPPORT TO THEM, BUT THIS WEEKEND MY DH WANTED TO GO TO HIS NIECES WEDDING WE KNEW WHAT WE WERE UP AGAINST. ALL OF HIS SIDE OF THE FAMILY PLUS HIS BIO-SON'S WHERE GOING TO BE THERE! THE ONLY ONES THAT SAID HI WAS THERE NIECE AND SISTER THAT WAS IN THE WEDDING AND thank US FOR GOING. ALL OF THE FAMILY ALL SAT UP FRONT IN A LITTLE HUNDLE GRANDKIDS SAID HI FROM AFAR.MY HUBBY ALMOST CHOKE UP BUT I TALKED TO HIM AND SAID LOOK THEY ARE NOT CARING RIGHT NOW! HE SNAP OUT OF IT ;-0 ... BUT WE TRY FROM THE VERY VERY BEGINNING BUT AFTER I DISENGAGE I STOP AND LEFT THEM ALONE, BUT NOW IT;S SAD BECAUSE FOR SURE I WONT EVEN GO TO A WEDDING OR ANYTHING NO MORE !!! OLD FEELINGS ARE STARTING AGAIN !!! NOW BACK TO REALITY ! ANY THOUGHTS ON THIS ??