Summer Holidays
BF and I were discussing taking the kids on a day trip 4th of July weekend. Its not our weekend with his kids (the 2 that don't live with us) but his son's mother is sooo predictable I'm sure she'll be calling to ask us to watch him, which was ok with me until I looked at the calendar and saw that Labor Day weekend is "our" weekend. Now we had the little "Angel" Memorial day and we'll have him Labor Day. So I told him that we are not watching him on 4th of July if she asks (and i'll bet my whole paycheck, she's going to ask). I feel bad that I changed my mind on him but after I realized that we would have him on the next holiday weekend I think its only fair that she keep the him (its her weekend anyway). Sad part is if we say no she'll just get BF parents to keep him the whole weekend.
How would it be if BF took
How would it be if BF took control to make the arrangements so that you could see him but have free time/GP time as well? This way it takes it out of her control and that way BF is making the plans for his son.
At this point he can do what
At this point he can do what he wants with his kids. I'll leave for the weekend. He's mister fun dad and when it comes down to giving the little boy a bath or feeding him, or cleaning up the mess he ALWAYS makes its on me or his oldest daughter. I've already checked out a few B&Bs I'll think I'll book one and get some much deserved rest!