I need anyone that is willing to give me examples.

Like my prior posts of my fucked up situation, I would lije to hear from others how they define codependency. My husband's kid is needy, lazy and I really suspect manipulative...especially when my husband told his kid not to tell anyone that he was planning on separating. Of course, the kid told EVERYONE on Facebook about this. I also have a problem, and told my husband that his kis needs to stay the fuck out of our business and husband needs to quit telling him things, cussing me out and blami g me for everything when it cones to his kid being a lazy wkthless asshole.