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One SKid with BD and one with BM?

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Submitted by stepmomx2 on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 1:18pm

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Is anyone in a situation where one step lives with BM and the other with BD? Both SD12 and SS14 live primarily with BD. My SD wants to live with her BM but SS wants to stay living with BD. BD lives about an hour away from BM. Proposed schedule is EOW, some holidays, and one night/week. So does that mean one night/week BM gets to come see SS and one night a week BD has to see SD? Seems like a logicstical nightmare to me.

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Submitted by morgan_minx80 on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 1:31pm

My SO has custody of his son and BM has custody of their daughter. Each parent gets alternate weekends and then half of the holidays. Not too much of a nightmare but SS11 wont stay at his bm's house. So on her weekends he stays at her mothers house. BM is a freakin cop out. Always has been, always will be. My SO also has one evening after school for a few hours, usually a Wednesday. BM has the chance to have this as well with SS11 but doesnt.

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Submitted by stepmomx2 on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 1:53pm

I guess I'm just trying to figure out how with their busy sports schedules we are going to find time to have her one night/week and have BM see SS one night/week too, and still have both kids see eachother.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 1:37pm

We have SS13 full time. He hates his mom. She has SD16 full time since she hates us. Works out great...I don't want that brat here since she sued us. After July SS turns 14 and never has to see his mother again. He is counting the days....

Never thought it would work out this way, but honestly SS and BS are better off with her out of our lives.