May 1 cannot get here soon enough. After my divorce being finaled in July and stupidly taking ex-DH back for a short time (its been about 6 months), I am just waiting for him to get out for GOOD! He moved back and things were okay for about 3 months and then he fell right back into all the old drinking, mooching, and skid/BM crap that made me divorce him in the first place. Of course I should have expected that - I know.

My former SS14 is a shit, no doubt, but when I found out that BM punched him and gave him a bloody nose, I told ex-DH that he either decides to man up and call CPS or I would. He called and then continued his month long drinking binge, leaving his kid to deal with CPS and his crazy BM alone. I was BEYOND pissed - I get that he has a drinking problem, but you pull your shit together and help your kid through a crisis, right? I don't care what you have to do. So I told him to leave for good and not to contact me or my daughter again. I have zero respect for him. I came this close to letting SS14 come over for the weekend until he told his dad that "I don't know my place" meaning my job is to do what he wants me to and then I snapped back to reality and told ex-DH that he could take a bus to see his kid if it was important to him. Which its not - he hasn't seen him since Xmas and hasn't spent a weekend with him for almost a year.

He had 10 days to find a place to live and pull his shit together. What does he do? Drinks and sleeps all day until today and then cries to me about how his life has fallen apart and he is going to be homeless. I told him that he certainly was if he didn't get his act together and find a place to live by next Thursday. Because I don't really care WHAT he does anymore, but luckily for me he has a warrant for a drinking charge and the cops would happily come pick him up for it so if he is still here on May 1 when I wake up, he can assume HE will be woken up the cops. I feel zero remorse about this.