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Submitted by AmIWicked on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 12:59pm

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I have Never seen BM without her hair done, without makeup, or without nice clothes on.

Never even a pony tail. Thoughout the whole time dating and now being married to my husband,... never once seen her at less than 100% "done up". Is this part of her personality?, always having to be the best looking, best dressed wherever she is?

BM's sisters are not like this so I don't think it's the way she was raised. I mean, I don't go to town in my pj's, but I've been in our front yard for exchanges in them. And I won't go into work with dirty hair in a pony tail, but I've gone to pick up the kids at BM's Christmas Morning like that,... and I never realized until just now that she never has. No matter the day, time, event, she is dressed up from head to toe... - Kids have been in dirty clothes and pony tails, but never her,...

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:05pm

Man that gets tiring.

I used to never leave the house without makeup and my hair straightened. That was "my look" so I was used to it and it made me feel good about myself. I felt naked without my makeup.

Now.....sweats, hair pulled back, no makeup- I have a ton of extra time! LOL

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Submitted by SMof2Girls on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:08pm

Our BM is similar .. the only exception being when she's sick. But yeah, she takes great pride in her appearance. Considering her propensity for cheating, I just assume it's because she's always open to new options, if ya know what I mean.

I don't pay her any mind.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:14pm

I hate to admit it but I always wanted to look my very BEST when I knew I was going to see my EX's wife.

Come to think of it...same thing with BM.

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Submitted by wth was I thinking on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:16pm

Some of them are like that. Skids' BM was like that at first, now I never see her. Win for me!

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:15pm

SD7's BM... I've hardly ever seen her DRESSED. She wears her pajamas or sweats all the time. old ones from like 5 years 100 lbs ago. gross.

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Submitted by Orange County Ca on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:27pm

Isn't it common knowledge that women dress for each other? Men rarely notice anyway being more skin oriented.

Put a tail on her and have them take pictures of her at the supermarket and post them on her Facebook page assuming she's sans makeup.

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Submitted by SMof2Girls on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 1:29pm

LOL true story .. I get more attention from DH when I'm in yoga pants and a tank top than in a well put together and accessorized outfit.

I honestly think BM burnt him out on the whole "high maintenance" look.

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Submitted by twopines on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 2:24pm

This reminds me of the time my first DH and I went camping with another family. The wife wore full makeup the entire time, lol. It's just the way she was I guess.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 2:59pm

Man, I don't think I've ever seen our BM CLEAN, much less dressed up! }:)

Seriously, she always reeks of cat piss and mildew.

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Submitted by ocs on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 2:50pm

I usually see BM all 'gussied' up.

lipstick on a pig... That's all I can say.

On my worst day of bed head and yoga pants I look better. Wink (and I'm older)

In all honesty, she was spotted prior to a court appearance earlier and the outfit was appropriate if she was 15, not 40.

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Submitted by hereiam on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 10:09pm

And who would want to? I could do my entire face over 4 times in 45 minutes. Or better yet, sleep a little longer!