We have SD14 for almost 1.5 years FT. Before we had her we had her 1/2 time and gave enough money......believe me!!
We have (DH) put up with BM giving "when she can" - not even enought to cover lunch money for a month!! She hasn't seen her in a month.
He finally calls her and lists the stuff we have spent on her......about 400+ this month; between lunches, dance dress, sports, eqip, class trips and she simply says "Oh well, there's nothing I can do about it!" and hangs up on him!!

I am fuming!! Meanwhile we have 3 other kids that depend on us too. I am going crazy!!

Suggestions....please!