Not sure of this goes here or not, Ive been looking for somewhere to vent. My Fiance and I have been best friends since the 7th grade (this year he admitted to me that hes hes been in love with me since but felt I was out of his league.). We lost contact for a long time and started talking again in 2004 as friends. Since then we both divorced he has 2 children 12 & 12, I have 1 who is 11. The problem is his ex wife. They have no kids together, no real estate, bank accounts ect. She tried to committ suicide a time ago, treated him and his boys like crap, drained all of his bank accounts all 300k that was from his passing of his father and from his military savings. Placed a loan on his house but then it was forclosed because she hid the bills) She bought her own wedding rings with his account (we found the reciepts with her name on them)They got married in 2006 and divorced this year. He did tell me about her and the kids had also expressed about it too. First she would text him and say she needed meds and she was dying, then shes send him messages that she hooked up with this guy and that guy, then called 52 times in one day. He changed his cell and our home phone. Then she statred sending me messages that he has her come to the house at night in the basement and they have sex or they meet some where, she says this has been going on for months now. usually this happens when he has to go into work at the main office. (theres a guy there that is friends with her that gives her info) but all the times she gives me is way off because hes always home or we are all at dinner. He has never helped her since he signed the papers, she thinks he is still reposnsible for him taking care of her and she doesnt understand hes not. She called him every name in the book because he dropped her car insurance and health care. She has told me that he was very abusive towards her (but also the other 5 men she was married to was also). We cancelled our facebook and myspace accounts and also blocked her email. Now the newest things is he went to get coffee before work and when he got into his truck she had pulled her car in so he couldnt get out came and pounded on the window and demanded that she needs the income tax returns so she can go to the free clinic. A mutual friend of ours was there and he told her that he was calling the cops and then she left. We've made reports and ect..... I know all these things shes saying isnt true. We basically ignore her and we both told her to leave us alone, he has even go to being cold hearted to her. My fiance and I know what we have is special and he is scared that she is going to screw it all up. Does anyone have any other ideas on this?