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Can FDH do anything right??? *sigh*

goincrazy.com's picture

Seriously he has really been rubbing me the wrong way lately. Everything good has kind of come to a halt and I'm finding my self getting irritated with him about everything. He intentionally is doing stuff to piss me off as well and he's digging his own grave.
He admitted in therapy after I expressed frustration about him buying SD16 a car and paying for her gas that he *does* plan on it and didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to argue.
So he just says what he thinks I want to hear and when it comes down to it he does what he wants. I already knew- really makes me wanna just distance myself. So unattractive and he's stupid, I knew it that why I called him out at therapy.

To top it off he took my lunch to work- then played the whole "I thought it was mine" knowing damn well it wasn't. because I told him it was mine last night.

He just bugs me. I'm over it

sbm014's picture

In my mind if he is telling you want you want to hear about SD you need to think about what else he may just be telling you to keep you happy?

You say he is trying to get to you with something as petty as taking your lunch.

Since he is FDH and not DH and even if he was I would suggest you take a long hard look at is this the way you want to spend the rest of your life? It doesn't sound like it so you should probably cut ties and look at moving on - I'm sure you love him but love can't make everything work.

goincrazy.com's picture

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