Bm called and wants joint graduation parties with FDH for SD21 and step-SS27

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For a f'n certificate program!!!!!!! Of course FDH doesn't mention anything to me about when she called or when he talked to her. I randomly ask *and I know i shouldn't but it's the only way I find anything out* if BM has called him recently. Of course she has, she wanted to inform him that both of the kids are graduating their programs in May and they need to have a graduation party for them.......his response was "I'll let you know"...

I'll let you know??? How about we aren't fn married anymore and we don't do shit together?????

Sd21 finished her program in the beginning of december, there is no graduation bc it's a certification program. BM called FDH asking him to give her "extra" $ for Christmas instead of having a little party for her bc she didn't have the $ to take her state tests. So he did, SHE JUST TOOK THE TESTS LAST WEEK and failed 1 of 3 so she has to repay and take it again.

BM's son, FDH's SS they do not have any relationship what so ever. He's 27 years old just finishing a program which is great but a grad party???? Am I just being the evil SM here or what?????

This is ridiculous to me. And the only reason BM is even trying to "invite" FDH to do a joint party is so he will pay!!!!!

My blood is actually boiling about this but I played my cool and simply said " If you plan on having a party with your ex wife, I will have no part in it and I will not be there"

I'm enraged. It never fucking ends

Am I crazy??!!!!

I think that's weird. First

I think that's weird. First of all, BM's son is not your DH's SS. He was, but is not anymore. They don't have a relationship at all.

I think it's nice for BM to invite DH. But it is also alright for him to decline the invitation.

SD21 didn't even pass her exams. This is just weird.

It is weird and it's not

It is weird and it's not nice, esp bc SD21 has 2 kids so we have to do joint bday parties for the kids, IT'S SO AWKWARD and segregated. Bitch doesn't even say hi, make eye contact or nothing. Now all the sudden she wants a party they can host together????

MAkes no sense, I think she's broke and wants FDH to pay.