Well this is my first blog, have been reading for many weeks, and finally decided to join in the fun!! , im in a relationship with a divorced guy with 2 kids, we have been together since nov. of 05 his kids are boys both 2 and 3 they are really good kids!! His marrige was short, to say the least they were young and he thought since she was pregnant that marrige was the answer boy was he wrong!! Well she told him upfront when she was about 5 month pregnant with ss2 that she wanted to basically "BE WITH" other people, nice for someone who is pregnant and married right? So the divorce was in process by their 1 yr anniversary! nice huh? anyways.... So we started seeing each other when she was pregnant and he had SS3, because she was "sick of being a mom" (and yes thats a quote) well we started seeing each other in october when BM was 9 months, we got along and since she already cheated on DH she was fine with me and him being together, and it might seem like we rushed things, but she moved out in july once they filed for a dissol. and not even 12 hrs after that her bf moved in with her! October 17th out pops SS2, well after she got out of the hospital she willingly gave SS2 and SS3 to dh and me,said she would call when she wanted them said she was depressed...blah blah! Anyways so we got a house together after a few short months i moved in to help him with the newborn and SS3 (he turned one the following week on the 24th)...so here is where it gets good! Two weeks go by, no call from BM, so here i am raising a new born and a one year old and running a house hold, Well a whole month goes by and still no word from her i didnt mind raising them dont get me wrong but part of me is like what the hell is wrong with this lady she has two beautiful kids and she doesnt want them? Well the divorce wasnt finalized until Jan. 06, so they went to sign the papers, i stayed home with the kids, she didnt ask about the kids or how they were doing signed them and left town!! So me and DH are just living life, parenting agreement was 50/50 which we didnt worry about since she was no where to be found and we didnt hear anything from her! Well the boys are getting older and are now calling me mommy, i didnt care i had been taking care of them for a year by this time, so we had our happy family me, brian and the two boys! still no word from bm! EVERYTHING WAS GOING GREAT! then.....

BM comes to our house christmas eve of 07 beating in the door demanding me to give her the kids, hah! over my dead body! SS just turned two and SS is now three....They are looking at this woman like she is freaking carzy! davin is clinging to me saying mommy mommy mommy, im trying to calm them down this dipshit is telling me she is going to beat my ass and acting totally immature, so i slam the door in her face and called dh at work he couldnt believe what he was hearing but they wouldnt let him leave work, So to make this part short, i had to give her the kids because it was her year to have them christmas eve, and the parenting agreement was never changed! Merry freaking Christmas right!! So i had to stand there and let my two babys go with some bimbo at the door who they were totally scared of! Well i called dh back after me and her fought for a little, and was mad at him for letting her take them, now i realize he had no say in it but come on your gone for 2 years, and out of nowhere come back demanding your kids thats rediculous! Well that was her comeback, and now she acts like she is the best mom ever!!

we used to get along but now she is a total bitch, because she hates the fact her kids call me mom!!

So when she got back we had to start following the agreement and she turns around and tries to get a court case going about brian withholding the kids for two years! HAH, that got thrown out!
She is a real piece of work, We had been working on potty training with ss3 and had him in big boy undies, he comes back in a diaper and totally forgets how to go potty!! its horrible and really really frustrating!! I just wish she would disapear again!!

When she came back from parts unknown, she worked at her high school job wendys and was collecting a whole bunch of government assistance, Well she finally got a good job, but still collects a bunch of government assistance, which i turned her in for because she openly gave me that info like a dumbass, and that court date is set for the 6th of june!

Now the kids are in daycare since all three of us work, the only thing is i cant pick them up because she set it up and didnt put me on the list she top priority and dh is low priority, BM BF is medium priority and im nothing... and BM BF is a convicted felon!! nice huh??
The daycare doesnt care for her at all, She always sends them in dirty clothes, and they have been documenting all the mysterious bumbs, and scrathes, and bruises and many of them have been followed by a dr's visit by dh and I and all have been ruled as neglect...So we will have custody soon we are just building a good case!! I cant wait for this all to be over with her!!

All this with in 6 months!! But atleast dh and I are doing good through all of this!!