BM calls on saturday the 4th, asking to see ss2 and ss3. I already had plans to take them with me to my parents for the fourth of july thing going on down at my hometown on saturday the 5th. Well she calls DH at work and asks, he says thats fine. YES IT MADE ME MAD because of what happened the previous time she got them, and how upset she always seems! Well DH calls and tells me that he's going to let her take them for the evening on the 5th and that we will get them back sunday at 11am.

As you all know ss3 is now potty trained has been for a while but we are working on ss2, and its taking a bit longer, one because he's a little younger and since BM doesnt work with him it sets him back (and yes even though she doesnt get them for long it still has an affect)

HAHHAHAHA!! IT WAS GREAT!

Stupid question right?

DH and I have no problems except that he is really lazy, he does no work around the house, no cleaning no dishes and no laundry. And when i ask him to lift a finger he gets mad....

His excuse is because when its summer he mows and does outside work, ummm that what 3-4 months a YEAR, what about the other 7-8 ?? I tried to help him mow and he bitched about the way i do it so i quit!