is wrong with these women. Like, for real. Not only am I a SM, I'm a BM too. I don't mess with my BK's SM. Even though I hate her nasty coniving evil little black cold diseased guts, I don't bother her (lol)I mean, I see it like this... my kids like her.... she's stuck with the pain in the ass cheating lying lazy worthless poor excuse for a BF, so why should I give her anymore grief? She wanted him so bad, she got him. To me that's hilarious enough. And the fact that my kids like her is wonderful to me, I wouldnt want them to not like their SM, then they'd be miserable every time they went to visit BF. I prefer them having a good relationship, makes me sleep better when they are there.
Then there are BM's like this one. For 10 years she dangled the SD on a string in front of F. Every time he tried to make it work, she backed off. Cheated on him with his friends, gave and took visitation away at the drop of a dime, you name it. He meets me, we move in together, we build a life, and now its "oh I love you so.. how could you leave our 10 years behind, what about *** (SD)" .... PUH-LEASE.
Makes me wanna lose my freakin breakfast. After he talked to her about not calling anymore she says to him "tell her I didnt mean any harm" ..... UMMM HELLO MCFLY.... txting him behind my back and making it seem as if he is doing the same is HARMFUL. Intentionally harmful, especially considering I listened in on the convo so I know for a fact he was not involved. Bitch. Ugh. Puke.

so, i could see how it can be taken as her apologizing, but she's just trying to keep the wool pulled down over my man's face. He thinks she's only being nice because of SD and doesnt have any ulterior motive. At least he did until this weekend. I kept telling him, what in the world do you think all of the sudden, out of the blue, she just decided to stop being a psycho and just give you everything you request, all of a sudden she wants you to see your kid after all this time of holding her away from you until you meet her demands? all of a sudden she wants to be your friend after downing you to anyone who would listen? COME ON MAN. This is clearly about her jealousy and has NOTHING to do with SD. That's her only pawn in her little game of "who can stoop the lowest". And gauran-damn-teed if he fell for it, the second she got him back she'd kick him in the gut and laugh in his face. She just thought he was going to be her little toy for ever because she gave birth to his child, and now she's freaking out because she was wrong. One persons garbage is another persons treasure, and I'm keeping him in my velvet lined extra secure retinal scanning thumbprint taking voice recognition electrified wall safe. mmhmm.

you got that right sister. could smell her game from the second i started dating him. he told me how he was going to go get his daughter, but could only have her for a few hours and HAD to take her out somewhere and spend money on her otherwise BM wouldnt let him take her for visits anymore. then she gets whiff of me and is all the sudden calling him and texting him 24/7 asking him shit like "how was your day, how are you, what did you do, i miss talking to you, you are my best friend i wish we could go do lunch, you need to be involved in your blood daughters life more, can you come to our house and visit with us" BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. It's even funnier that they don't see how manipulative the BM's are until you point it out to them. I wonder if theres something wrong with me, I mean, I'm a BM and I refuse to be an effin nutjob like that. Just goes to show you, all you BM's out there if you're reading this.. make damn sure you dont want the man anymore before you start treating him like trash and throw him away cuz once he finds someone that really loves him, you're done, bearer of his child/ren or not. sorry for ya.