Call DH all you want he is not going to help you, only your meds will!
My Skids BM is not all there I think she is bi-polar or something. When the court was determining custody, both her and DH had to take some sort of test and her results came back that she had some type of mental/personality disorder which is part of the reason why DH has custody of the kids I know she has to take medication for this, and I can always tell when she is not taking her medication because she starts flipping out about crazy stuff, and it always comes back to me she will start e-mailing and calling DH non-stop accusing me of crazy stuff. Like calling and harassing her at work, saying that I am following her, and saying that I am telling my skids bad things about her.
It is quite funny my DH will tell me he received a phone call from BM again and my reply is always "guess she is not taking her meds." It is really too bad because my skids have to see her this way. They say that when they go over to her house for visitation she does not spend any time with them she will stay in bed all day and they will spend time with her husband. I am sure she doesn't want to take the meds. because she wants to feel like everyone else, to be normal without meds. but it does more harm than good.
I guess I just get tired of her putting me as the source of all her problems, because I could really care less about her, I have my own life - my family, friends, work, and hobbies. I frankly do not have room in my life to deal with a psycho.
So I feel bad for my husband that he has to deal with the phone calls especially when he is at work, but as my subject states she can call him all she wants but he can not help her only her meds will help her with these hallucinations.
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Hi Jennifer
Hi Jennifer, don't worry, I will call Jim and let him know that you are back on here harassing me.
By the way everyone.... This is Jennifer.... she is my son's stepmom and she continues for follow and harass me. She attacks me on this site while posting annonymously and then she signed on with the screen name jisselle. She has been harassing me with phone calls and on this site. At this point, I am going to refer this to the police.
Because.....
EVERYTHING she says matches EXACTLY to our lives.... her screen name jisselle is the name that she was going to name her baby boy if he had been a she.... the age of my son, the age of her son, the events that she talks about.... she had tracked me down here before when I was stupidly using my real name.... then she lurked around this site until she was able to determine who I was again (when I canged my name to chocoholic).... then she began attacking me again.... Her newest post (above) is in response to the fact that I called my ex (her husband) and told him what she was doing..... when I outed her in a past post by identifying her by name she called me at work and threatened me.... It IS her, there is no dought. I am taking all of her postings, the recent e-mail she sent to me, and the phone call to my work to the police to get an antiharassment order against this psycho.
But in the end....
I have decided to quit posting here. It is causing too many problems that I just don't have time for. I am going to press charges against this woman for her continued harassment and let my ex know what she is doing and then just leave it at that. Sometimes we gotta take the high road.... and this is just one of those times. I wish you all the best of luck with your families!
who are you?
not jennifer. chocoholic I am sorry for your situation but you should have checked my bio before you go and start accusing people of being something they are not. Life is too short to make enemies.
I don't really care...
...who anyone is or isn't, but there are people who do suffer from mental illness and who do require medication to control it and I don't think it's right to laugh at someone who's "off their meds" or to imply that being off mediciation is their reason for doing/feeling/saying anything. Having a stepchild or stepchildren with a truly mentally ill parent is no laughing matter and if that parent does stop taking their mediciation, it can cause serious problems for the children. You may think this is "quite funny," but I think the appropriate response to this should be genuine concern, not ridicule.
I've probably called my skids' mom psycho, too, but I don't think I'll be doing that again. If she is crazy, then that's scary to me, not funny. If she's not crazy, then that is belittling to people who truly are affected by mental illness. I'll continue to think of her as hostile, vindictive, rude, careless, hateful, hurtful, uncommunicative, spiteful and a whole slew of other things based on her treatment of me, but I'll never call her crazy or psycho again. Reading the original blog entry above has made me reconsider my usage of words and phrases like "psycho," "off her meds" and "crazy." I don't like the negative connotation.
“You can always trust the information given to you by people who are crazy; they have an access to truth not available through regular channels.” - Sheila Ballantyne
~ Anne ~
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission."
-Eleanor Roosevelt
eh, ya, ya ya... and you all
eh, ya, ya ya... and you all think that anonymous posters are all critical.... from where I sit, this is why I don't chose to sign up for an account. You've got paranoid people who are determined to make someone out to be who they may or may not be because of similarities stories and backgrounds. With all the people that visit this site, it's bound to happen that yes, that person sounds sooo much like so and so. You've got others who are sensitive to wordage and verbiage when really, it's only that person reading having a personality conflict with it and nothing more, and on top of that hypocritical too. To me, when people start to pull out the politically correct card, that's like letting someone else dictate your life. Yes, there are diffidently certain things that are quite offensive such as name calling, yes. But where do you draw the line? If we have to consistently groom ourselves as not to offend another person, we might as well not have a place to vent how we feel because dare we upset anyone if we just so happen not be politically correct. And if you strike a chord with someone, you're labeled as bashing when you dare to disagree. You're always going to run into someone you disagree with regardless.
Okay...
I walked into the wrong post today.... I think I'm going to walk right back out again... have a good one everyone.
Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...