Drama never ends!
SO here I am 3 weeks later, ready to pull my hair out. From the first lie when he walked in the door (SS 19) to present day...
Lets start off with, the conversation is ALWAYS about his mother or there is no conversation, just a total sit in the same room and make the room feel awkward and uncomfortable. And he now just talks to my son about her, and my son said, "Mom, it is creepy how he talks about her more than his girlfriend, he kind of talks about her like she is his girl friend... I find this very disturbing!!!!
He actually got a job soon after getting here, he choose the night shift. So now sleeps all day and is awake playing games when not at work ALL NIGHT LONG.
You can tell exactly where he sits because food crumbs are all over floor, cups left on table,coffee grounds all in my sink and juice spills on table... Anything like glasses name tags legos and other misc items left where ever he feels the need to put them.
Now instead of the BM calling or texting DH she now has her minion just constantly showing DH his phone with pictures or messages on his... YAY for the drama.. NOT
And our latest freak out from BM, guess SS gf cheated (or so a story is going) and he posted a picture of himself flipping off the camera and posted it on social media. Which has now warranted the BM to call /text to tell DH that he needs to look at said social media and that she is calling a doctor in our area and we need to make sure he goes to said doctor. HE'S 19 years old..... NOT 2.. WTH????
Oh and another good old head itcher, the other SS texted DH to ask him what (I) want for christmas.. Mind you they have never got anything for me before, nor do they speak to me, act as though I do not exsist, but they want to get me a gift???? So I told him, 100 acres of land and enough 9 mm rounds to last me a year or so! LMAO
And in other news the other SS and his cow are coming this weekend, in which my DH has said we need to resolve the wedding issue that happened when they come up. Mind you they have not spoken to me since the wedding (June) and continue to post racial things and things I find offensive out of spite. I see this weekend being a disaster and will need as many good vibes as not to kill anyone LOL
Someone tell me, to stop going crazy.... Please....
My first thought is, why is
My first thought is, why is SS19 living with you?? Although my own DD is living with us this year as she is in college but if he has a job then he should be out on his own, living in his own apartment yes?
He can't afford to be on his
He can't afford to be on his own...
Most young adults of my
Most young adults of my generation could not afford to be "on our own" either and thats why we shared expenses with roommates.
That would be awesome, IF
That would be awesome, IF people only wanted to be around them.... The only people I see wanting to spend time with them is their BM family... Most of their friends are all out of school and have started living their lives. Mean while, here in the real world, no one wants to go into room mating with someone who, 1) does not clean up after them self 2) lets people know real quick that he does not do over time because he has video games to play 3) is obsessed with just talking about their mother......
You can see where this may turn normal people off from wanting to be a "room mate" ... He wanted to do this with my son, but my son said NO! He would get stuck with bills and such and that is not going to happen. Not to mention, this SS LIES about everything, even stupid stuff like is that your soda in front of you, "uh no" then 10 minutes later who took my soda off the table..
UGHHHHHHHH I want to scream.. I need therapy!!! LOL
You should see the room where
You should see the room where he is sleeping.... Just not going there UGH
Is there such a thing as a BM
Is there such a thing as a BM having a mini-husband? Probably.
I find that very disturbing!
I find that very disturbing! She always said he was her little man, did she mean that literally? Should I be more than disturbed with all this, I think so....