They won't even do father daughter time alone!
We went to visit SD28 , she lives in another state with her boyfriend, when the topic came up I told DH let's get a hotel room he and SD insisted we stay at her house because they had an extra bedroom, I was bummed because I can only take so much of SD at a time. Well we get there and she's showing me around and I notice there was no bed in the spare room, I asked her where are we going to sleep? She said "oh we didn't have time to get a bed" so I went and told my DH we need to go find a hotel, by this time it was 7pm and we hadn't eaten dinner yet either because he was sure SD would have something ready bahahaha I don't know why he would even think that. So we go to leave to FInd a hotel and get something to eat and SD and boyfriend are like well come with you, so of course we ended up buying them dinner!
The next morning they come to the hotel to have breakfast with us, yeah another free meal than at lunch we were at the mall, yep another meal for them, after lunch I told DH I wanted to go back to hotel and take a nap and give SD and him time together, her boyfriend said yeah I've got some things to do so you guys can have father daughter time, they about went crazy making excuses and figuring out another plan, WTH? GO SPEND TIME TOGETHER FFS you're always trying to convince people you're so close to each other! Nope DH ended up coming back to hotel with metro nap and SD went with boyfriend! Ugh just needed to vent!
Do any of you run into the fakeness between SD and DH?
Some parents have difficulty
Some parents have difficulty relating to their children in the early years of the children's adulthood especially when a father is faced with a girls sexuality. Just a thought.
I understand what you're
I understand what you're saying Orange but it's not that, I feel if they don't have me around to entertain and keep a conversation going while they pretend to be so loving to each other it's no fun for them if I'm not there, SD has always tried to be mini-wife but it's just to irritate me not that she cares enough about her Dad, (believe me I know this girl and something's not right with her) As I said she wanted me with them so she could continue her mind games and try and get to me, she likes winning the competitions she plays each time with DH and me, I wasn't going To go "play" so it no longer was important for them to see each other.
Wow, I would've been super
Wow, I would've been super irritated. I don't think I would have made it as far as you LOL
Yep, I want nothing to do
Yep, I want nothing to do with her, it's all an act and mind games, couldn't wait to get home!
Somehow I ended up with 2
Somehow I ended up with 2 posts on this sorry!
Oh wow! all this
Oh wow! all this mooching...so little time LOL Ugh
It's like my dh and ss14
It's like my dh and ss14 (whom he has raised on his own since age 5).
I always suggest that him and ss go do something special "alone" but dh wants nothing to do with it. He's had enough of his alone time. He now likes family time or couple time.
I'm always encouraging him to do things with ss, go to his game, etc but if I'm not planning on doing it, dh doesn't want to do it. Naturally I plan my life around my work and 4 bios schedules as my priority.
This weekend I'm away with dd14 seeing a boy band across the state for a 36 hour trip. Dh is home with boys and baby. I've suggested that dh do similar things with his son, but frankly, I think he's tired if the kid and doesn't enjoy his company.
I told my two boys that when they turn 13 they too will get to plan a special trip/outing with me.
I'm not interested in doing anything at all like this with ss either.