Trolls?
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I have a feeling a lot of these new posters are trolls. I really think we should stop feeding them.
idk y but it annoys me to think that we are really digging to give good advice & it's just some jerk making up something to make us all upset.
Hey now! I'm new. I'm not a
Hey now! I'm new. I'm not a troll lol
I'm just a SM looking for a place to vent and for some advice.
When you google "I hate my SD" or "Step parent issues" this is the first site that comes up and honestly all of you on here have some great blogs and great advice and I was BLOWN AWAY by how many people on here have the same issues and feel the same way I do. I totally thought I was alone in all of my feelings.
With the divorce rate being over 50% and growing I think you will see a lot of new people on here, because lets face it, over the age of 25 its hard to find someone to date or marry who doesn't already have kids. And with all the entitlement the kids feel these days, I'm sure there is an increasing amount of frustrated SM's.
And if there are Trolls, well I feel bad for them lol. Spending your days messing with innocent SM's is a pretty sad way to live
I'm not saying you are but we
I'm not saying you are but we have had a string of strange posts. Everyone has a stream of pregnant gfs they've known 5 minutes etc. It's weird. LOL
We get new people allllllll the time, heck I'm even a new member (been reading for years though) but when you're new & posting for advice & insulting everyone that responds... I kinda feel like maybe it's a troll.
Yeah I did notice the
Yeah I did notice the pregnant girlfriend thing and thought that was weird. People are messed up! LOL
Yes. Like if he wanted to
Yes. Like if he wanted to help his GF he could send her to this site, she's the 'stepmom' but even then she's only known the guy a couple months so she's not really a 'stepmom' to his child at all.
THIS I'm so sick of kids
THIS
I'm so sick of kids becoming victims of the stupid choices adults makes.
As I said to my niece when
As I said to my niece when she told me she had an accident and was pregnant, "Hmmmm....I see....so you slipped and fell naked on his dick?"
That comment got me kicked
That comment got me kicked out of my sister and BIL's house.
Unfairly I might ask, because they asked me what I thought and I said, you don't want to know. They insisted. I told them. I got kicked out.
My cheap, trashy SD fell
My cheap, trashy SD fell accidentally on at least 5 dicks that I know of in 5 months with the goal in mind of getting pregnant. The lucky guy was #5; princess brat got pregnant. She did this all for attention. Told the guys that she was on birth control; damn liar. She now lives off the government, taxpayers and the child's father in the form of child support. What a winner.
Me 2 . Grew up Duluth mn
Me 2 . Grew up Duluth mn upper east side and had to explain to other kids what divorce is. Normal families are freakin cool. FERTILE PEOPLE are too. Unfortunately my mom and I neither been fertile. Raising other beefy dudes creations
Funny, I was thinking the
Funny, I was thinking the same thing with a few of the newer posts. I thought, this person can't be for real! But then I thought, so many birth moms we deal with are total close-minded psychos, it's not beyond the realm of possibility that some stepmoms/dads on this site would also be close-minded psychos LOL
Oh well, I guess we can just consider them our entertainment (you're right though, it is annoying to put genuine advice out to those who have no intention of taking it)
Lol yeah I feel like those
Lol yeah I feel like those posts are so shocking too that they get all the attention & like 100 responses where genuine, less 'shocking' posts may get passed over.
The SM/BM kept coming back
The SM/BM kept coming back the other day. She would never say what the SM did to her kids. All she would reveal was that SM wasn't white.
Maybe she got scared off
Maybe she got scared off because basically everyone told her she was a racist and it shouldn't matter what race the SM is
Ugh - just from reading that
Ugh - just from reading that I am glad I missed it too!!!
She is a racist. SM's SM
She is a racist. SM's SM skin color should not matter at all.
Did you notice she never said one thing the SM did to hurt her kids. She was just the "wrong" color.
There is no way that woman
There is no way that woman was NOT a troll. People don't spout off that kind of racist crap anymore. If there are any racists left, they know better than to put it all out there on a forum
You know....I need to read
You know....I need to read that blog again, because I don't remember her specifying the race of the SM.
It could very well be the OP was of a different ethnicity and the SM was white. Doesn't change the fact she's racist.
and there are "new" posters
and there are "new" posters that say they have been "lurking" for awhile but refuse to actually post a blog...all they do is post comments on others blogs and most of their "comments" are negative...shady....
You said the "T" word.
:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:
You said the "T" word.
Yes and now we have to
Yes and now we have to sacrifice a virgin in order to get the t-words to go back under the bridge!
But I am not willing to be
But I am not willing to be sacrificed.
And now that I
And now that I know.........Muuuuwwwwwaaaaahahahahahahaha.
S'ok, you're safe, she said a
S'ok, you're safe, she said a "virgin!"
}:)
Snerk....snort....cough....co
Snerk....snort....cough....cough.....
tea....out nose......dammit Mairin!
As a COD, I'm still cranky
As a COD, I'm still cranky that I missed out on that whole $10 Incentive Program.
I don't post much and maybe
I don't post much and maybe I'm biased because I've been reading for a long time but I like seeing the familiar people post. I like reading how you all are doing and when a new person comes on it's kinda weird (I know, strange coming from me).
I am new here and the last
I am new here and the last time i looked in the mirror I wasn't a troll LOL. I love reading and relating with all of the posts and have greatly appreciated the advice I have been given on the 2 occasions I have made a post. I am currently taking some of that advice and am reading Stepmonster and Divorce Poison. If it hadn't been for this site I would have never known about the books.
I'm not saying all new people
I'm not saying all new people are trolls, just some are blatantly obviously trying to pick a fight. Not those who are genuinely needing & listening to advice
My favorites were the
My favorites were the teenager offering advice on how to understand teens followed by the BM offering advice on how to understand BMs. Those were fun.
Yes they were!
Yes they were!
Well I'm new to this board, I
Well I'm new to this board, I was dealing more with being a second wife, even after almost 6 yrs. I like it here and would like to feel welcome. I realize I have not taken an opportunity to blog and I want to, cause I would like advice or input...
I've seen your posts, you
I've seen your posts, you don't seem to be attacking people giving you advice & seem real lol
Oh oh you're on to me.
Oh oh you're on to me.
Ha! I KNEW it!!!!
Ha! I KNEW it!!!!
"I not troll! I tiger!
"I not troll! I tiger! rawr."
Bwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaahahahahahahaahaha!
I remember your original user
I remember your original user name (it was shorter) and I've always enjoyed your posts.
ktq - you DID NOT just invoke
ktq - you DID NOT just invoke that name.
Man.......now you just open the door to a whole new shade of crazy!!
Shaman is right behind you!
Shaman is right behind you!
I remember that
I remember that one!!!!....lol......
She was a riot. Making
She was a riot.
Making Christmas decorations about 6 month early.
Complaining about the CS her husband paid BM's parents. It was about $200 in over a two year period for two kids.LOL
How about the SM who had the boyfriend that left BM for her, then left her go back to BM, then left BM again to go back to her?? Then SM and the BF ended up moving into BM's house because they couldn't afford their rent or electric bill!!!
Disneyfan, Is she the one
Disneyfan, Is she the one who, after moving into the BM's house, was doing all the babysitting of the skids, as well as getting up with baby skid at night?I seem to remember the parents napping a lot, not working, in school, or some such thing.
Yes!! While they were living
Yes!!
While they were living in BM's home, theb parents would disappear for a bit and leave SM at home with the kids.
Good times good times.
Good times good times.
OMG - she was a piece of work
OMG - she was a piece of work wasn't she!!
The poor helpless disabled twin who she wanted custody of so she could discipline him....
Im half new, I had an account
Im half new, I had an account before but to be honest I first found everyone so damn negative I had a hissy fit and left.
I still think alot of people are negative but I also realise that I am very lucky with the sitation with my SDs BM since she hasnt "yet" caused any issues, however the same cannot be said for my sister.
I have just posted about it and yes it does sound like something out of a tv soap and it wouldnt surprise me if you thought it was a troll post but sadly its real
I wonder why of all places
I wonder why of all places step talk would be a place to troll...but then I don't understand why people troll at all...
My nephew has admitted to me that he will troll sites (he does not know I'm on this one). But he is 16, without a girlfriend and lives on computers. When he told me this, my first thought was, "God please show him the light and get him away from his Damn keyboard" haha
But in really thinking about it, I can't imagine anyone past college age that would have enough time to troll. I mean it is amazing that I get the laundry of five people done and have time to myself at all let alone have time to jerk other people around for hours a day with made up stories.
Hi! I appear to be new, but I
Hi! I appear to be new, but I accidentally posted SD's name when I first tried to post about obtaining an RO. I had to delete my old account, which was fine, because I didn't like my username anyway. Lol
(Glad my RO post wasn't one of the "suspicious" user posts discussed on this thread!)
I remember your meme
I remember your meme
Wow, yeah, I remember seeing
Wow, yeah, I remember seeing a lot of her the first time I joined.
This is nostalgic!
WTF???? Hahahahaahahaaaa
WTF???? Hahahahaahahaaaa
oh yes, I remember her too -
oh yes, I remember her too - she was pretty recent.
How many step/adopted kids and BM's were there again?