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Submitted by moonchild18 on Tue, 10/08/2013 - 7:01pm

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DH never made it home from work today. :? After about 2 1/2 hours late, I call him and ask---his response is I'm in Utah! :O We live in the Midwest. Now he does travel with work sometimes, but I know when he will be out of town. DH then says, I didn't tell you because SS was around all the time.( We don't let SS know if he is going to be gone.) Yeah, right. SS is the 32 year old parasite that lives with us.

I don't know what to think. He could of and should of told me. I went off on his son this weekend. I don't know if he is getting back at me or what.

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Submitted by moonchild18 on Tue, 10/08/2013 - 9:12pm

You are all correct. Of course, he had many opportunties to tell me. But, he choose not to. Why? That is the $25,000 question. DH normally tells me a week or two in advance. So, that is why I'm trying to figure this one out. Funny how he blamed the SS.

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Submitted by moonchild18 on Tue, 10/08/2013 - 10:25pm

No,I can't hack into his phone. But, I will figure this out one way or another. This marriage has gone to h*** anyways. Tired of being upset. Sad Thanks for your support ladies.

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Submitted by Igiveupsotornup... on Tue, 10/08/2013 - 11:54pm

Wow I think I would leave DH if he did this to me. I agree with what everyone else is saying. Unreal!

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 10/09/2013 - 6:57am

Something is most definately afoot at the Circle K. Time to hire a PI and get ready to change the locks on by SS-32 and DH.

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Submitted by moonchild18 on Wed, 10/09/2013 - 7:50am

A lot is wrong here----on SO many levels. I'm making plans to leave. Too tired to fight this battle anymore. I believe it is a payback for "picking" on his "boy". I'm waiting for a settlement from a accident to help me exit. Also, trying to get my life in order. I have to try and get a life plan. It is so hard to think. There is always so much BS going on around here. I have been at home for a while, so it is hard to figure out a career path. Really, that will be the most difficult thing to accomplish. Leaving will be easy. I have just had it. As they say "when you are done, you're done". I've already seen a attorney.

Can you ladies tell me what careers you have and a little bit about them? Thanks!

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Submitted by farmers wife on Wed, 10/09/2013 - 3:59pm

Don't know what to say, but sincerely wish you the best. That certainly stinks, to say the least.