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Submitted by moonchild18 on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 8:03am

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Well, I guess no matter what I say, how upset I get, SS is going nowhere. I have written about him in other posts--32 year old parasite. I overheard DH and SS talk about him getting cable for his TV in his room. He already has it made, no rent, plays different sports, and hangs out in bars. SS bought a box of laundry detergent and DH made sure I knew he did this! WOW!!!!DH knows I want him out, but is being sneaky and is trying to get cable hooked up for him.

I know things will never change and I need to get out. What can I do to make SS miserable in the meantime?

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Submitted by sbm014 on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 8:10am

Honestly it doesn't sound like you can do anything as long as your DH is willing to make his life luxurious. It does not sound like your feelings/actions matter. I hate this for you.

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Submitted by 20YearsAsAStep-Mom on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 8:45am

Forget SS , focus on making yourself happy. start on your exit plan and keep your eye on the prize, a peaceful calm life. THE situation you are in sounds awful. I would definitely let DH know your days are numbered in putting up with this crap. Good luck and take care of yourself, noone else will.

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Submitted by whatamess on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 9:54am

I wholeheartedly agree with this too. Investing your energy into trying to make SS miserable will only drain you. IMHO you need to focus on things that will lift you up and take care of you. Unfortunately at this point, you are the only one thinking of YOU in this situation so take good care of yourself and don't worry about SS anymore.

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Submitted by mannin on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 9:42am

I agree with a previous poster - forget the SS. Focus on you and your new life.

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Submitted by moonchild18 on Fri, 10/04/2013 - 12:21pm

Thanks for all of your responses! PushedToInsanity I will keep you in mind. I do have a 4 year old grandson(not SS's) and I SWEAR he is better behaved! I do try to take care of myself, but sometimes doing little annoying things to SS in the meantime makes my day }:) !!!