I have a 4 year old stepdaughter. Her mom & dad were never together I guess they were sort of a fling and she ended up pregnant. I started dating him when my sd was 2. She's always been sort of different. She makes odd facial expressions, she has an evil stare, she won't listen ever, her posture is odd ( she pokes her belly out ) and she always makes this weird face like her mouth is wide open and she thinks its cute & won't stop doing it. I have a biological daughter who is 3 and she is the sweetest to everyone she ever meets, this is how I know my step daughters behavior is NOT normal. You can tell she always gets her way with everyone. Her dad, my now husband won't discipline her for the simple fact she goes back and tells her mommy he's mean to her. She's manipulative for a 4 year old. She sits there and tells my husband she doesn't like me. I've been nothing but nice to her. Her own mother doesn't even take care of her half as good as I do. I took her shopping the other night, bought her a ton of new clothes & some toys out of my money and she comes home and tells her daddy I'm mean and she hates me. I mean what is that about?? I really thought I was crazy thinking that I have an evil step child but even my friends who are blatantly honest and never just side with me because we're friends have told me that she's freaking weird ( in there words ) my best friend asked her to pick up something she spilled and she gave her that evil look and mouth thing she does and would not move or even acknowledge her telling her to pick up what she spilled! My step daughter also tells these wild stories. Once she told me her mommy made her sleep outside & all she ever eats is chips. She pees in the bed every time she stays over. And will just lay in it for hours and when I walk into the room I'll smell the pee and ask her did she pee herself and she tells me no. And I change her clothes its obvious she did pee and she never admits it. She also does other bad things. She smacked my daughter one day right in front of me and then denied it and never admitted it.. When other kids around her get hurt she smiles and acts like she doesn't care while my daughter will go right up to them and say aw are you ok? My step daughter also likes to sometimes get up in the middle of the night and sleep in the floor in the hallway, she's strange. I started putting a gate up and she would knock it down and lay right in the floor an sleep. It's so weird! I know this story is all over the place but I'm just saying everything that comes to mind she's done. She is ruining my marriage!! I try and talk to my husband about it and he just changes the subject or says he doesn't want to hear it because I'm overreacting bc she's only 4. This girl knows right from wrong she just doesn't care. I'm convinced she's evil. She just stares at people doesn't matter who it is and I've been told by a lot of people it creeps them out. I just am at wits in. The bad thing is we only get her every other weekend but I will cry knowing she's about to stay the weekend. She scares me. I give her a bath because her dad doesn't really pay any mind to her and if I don't do it she won't get bathed. She cries when I give her a bath and shakes like I'm killing her. I've never witnessed something like that ever before. I wonder if some of her behavior is because her mom is such a whore. She sleeps and stays with a different guy almost every week. When she was pregnant with my step daughter it was between my husband and 4 other guys that could have been her father. But then again she's only evil towards me, the nicest person in her life. I honesty despise her but yet I'm super nice to her and she hates me. I'm at the point where I'm about to stay with my mom on weekends she comes. I already sends daughter to her dads the weekends my step daughter is with us because she is so mean to my little girl. But when daddy comes around she acts completely different and I tell him your daughter just hit mine. And he will ask her and she will tell him no daddy I didn't. And he believes her and not me. He thinks I just hate her for no reason.. Idk what to do thanks for reading I need someone to talk to about this because I can't talk to my husband.