i like my SD9 but holy does she ever make me wonder sometimes. she has what unfortunatly seems to be the usual bad attitude when she comes home from BM house. she lives with SO and goes to visit BM whenever she wants pretty open and fair custody arrangment i think even though BM is awful!!!!! she asked SO to pay her rent not 6 months ago!!!!! he didnt pay it--i think he knew it wouldnt go over well with me LOL.

she can be very sweet however when shes bad i dont even want to be here. she is so disrespectful its unreal!!! i am blanking on all of the things that she says now that i have a moment to myself to post here and watch 20/20 . multi-tasking--isnt that what we do as SM with no thank yous or respect. ahhh yes the things she says to SO: "when i call you, you come here now" etc etc. SO recently has began to correct their (also SS15 will get into that later) disrespectful behavior, after i told him that it was unacceptable and is not teaching them that he loves them just that he is a doormat. im actually really happy that he has started listening to me. Back to issues with SD: she lies all of the time the only way to be sure she is telling the truth is if she reitterates a story a few times, she refuses to sleep in her room because there isnt a TV in there, she is spoiled beyond belief, and she HANGS all over SO ALL the time. when i say i will be sitting on one side of him, she will be sitting on the other holding his hand and then works her way over until she is sitting on his lap. we cannot be in the kitchen for 5 minutes alone. the hanging all over dad thing is the thing that bothers me the most. sometimes i feel alienated from even sitting in the living room because she is laying on the couch cuddling him and i have to sit in the chair off to the side alone. i finally said to her the other night "does something seem different about this picture to you?" i probably shouldnt have but i was so irritated i couldnt hold back anymore. anyway is the hanging thing normal? i find it kind of messed up and wierd. dont know how to tell SO that i find it wierd either?

next SS15 is pretty nice BUT he is totally ADDICTED to video games. has a headset that you talk into and other people talk back. i dont know im not into video games. but its super annoying. finally got SO to get him to move video game system into his room but its terrible. im actually concerned about him because its to the point he isnt going out and socializing at all. i havnt seen him go out with friends in 3 weeks. even his hygene is slipping as of right now he has been in the same clothes since i saw him yesterday at 12pm...its now 11pm the next day. any suggestions???

if you read all this thank you!