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I miss the way I could post about SS and Bm & feel secure.

windee's picture

I could post and feel safe in that what I was saying would never be seen by DH, SS or BM. Now I just don't feel as secure. Nothing that was done from this website! I LOVE this website and appreciate all the advice and help from everyone here! I never want to lose access to this website!!!! I am just afraid that the things I put on this website might be read and/or printed then shown to someone else. Before,I could post a blog entry and then remove it....now it's there forever. Just paranoid! This place is therapy for us all and I guess I just had to whine! LOL!!! Smile Thank you for always being there for each other, I really do appreciate it!!!

windee's picture

A blog can, but no one sees it. I guess I am selfish! I want someone to read my post and respond! Smile The way things are now, no one responds to a blog, only to a forum topic.

stormabruin's picture

Actually, I watch the blogs more than I do the forums. I only veer to the forums when the blogs are slow. LOL!

windee's picture

Oh! I would love to blog again!! I know I am just feeling sorry for myself and alot of ladies on this site have it WAY worse that I do! But man, it just feels good to vent and say what you want the way you want!!!

stormabruin's picture

There will always be someone who has it worse. That doesn't make the rest of us any less needful of venting time/opportunity. We all need a turn sometimes. Smile

frustratedstepdad's picture

Yes, most of us on here do read blogs, even more so than the forums at times. Definitely feel free to write!

dragonfly5's picture

I just deleted one of my old ones to see if it could be done, I did.
you just need to put something like I am deleting this old post in the text area.

Windee are we missing something?

stormabruin's picture

Blogs can still be deleted. I just did one of mine. When you post in the forums, those cannot be deleted unless Admin does it.

windee's picture

That's what I mean. The forum topics cannot be deleted. Before when you blogged about something, others could see that you had done that. Now no one can see what you posted unless it is a forum topic. If there is another way to do it, please let me know!! SS if driving me crazy!!!! I want to say thing the way they are with out prettying them up for fear that they will be seen. Just really uncomfortable about my posts being seem and DH getting upset or hurt by my words and true feeling about his child!!!

stormabruin's picture

When you click "home" on the menu & it shows the current blogs...that's what I usually watch.

I don't normally delete my blogs, but I ONLY post blogs just because I like the security of knowing I have the option to delete should I ever need to.

windee's picture

That is cool! I didn't know that! Thank you!!! I do that!! And I agree with you about the blogs and deleting!!

emotionaly beat up's picture

How do they get your password. If they just troll through the site and recognise themselves from what you are posting, then they must see themselves in it and you might point that out to them, if you know that is you, and you don't like what I wrote, then you cannot think much of yourself, change YOUR behaviour and I will change my blogs. Perhaps just change everything, and make SS a SD a year or two younger, older whatever, but you have a right to privacy and if he is checking up on you, then get into his computer and check up on him see how he likes it. Maybe run two blogs one where you name him and point out how wonderful he is and the real one where you tell the truth. I'm sure he would stop looking when he sees the good stuff because SK always seem to see themselves as being great and SM as being the cow. Smile

caregiver1127's picture

Windee - I hate to tell you I only really look at the blogs and the only reason I looked at this was because it was on the side and I thought you were a newbie or that your BM had caught you - a lot of people look at the blogs so blog away!!

windee's picture

I will start to blog from now on then. It just didn't seem like they were read when I blogged. I appreciate it!

IfearImgoinnutz's picture

I'm pretty new to this site, I know how to scroll through the forums, but how do you get to the blogs? The only way I got here was from the recent comment thing on the side.

stormabruin's picture

At the top left of your screen there's a Menu. Click "Home". It will pull up a list of the most recent blogs posted. To see the older blogs, just go through the pages numbered at the bottom.

windee's picture

Thank you! I checked it and see waht you mean!! THANK YOU THANKYOU!!! I have missed the blogs like that!! WOW! there the whole time and didn't even know!

Auteur's picture

Windee, last March GG almost infiltrated this site by accident (I left my email open on the home computer by accident whilst emailing a fellow STalker) which sent GG into a flying purple faced rage in which he got physical with me because I dared to talk about that "royal family" of his. Even though he knows very well I am not "allowed" to mention anything about the royal family to him.

I had to delete all my blogs here and my account and sign up under a different name. There's always that "ejection button."