I walk into my step daughter's room one morning (my fiance has primary custody) and she is putting on a shirt. she has a white tube top thing on and is putting shirt on over it. i ask "what is that?" she says "my training bra.." :jawdrop: she is 6 y/o she has nothing to "train" her Mom bought it - 'goes with a shirt that has the back out" again she is 6 y/o...back out???!!! OMG!!! I freak out - handled it all wrong- later made amends and explained my opinion- you are 6 what will be a rite of passage when you DO need a bra? she understood that i was talking age appropriate things that 6 y/os don't need bras and we compromised she only wears it with the shirt it came with and only at her moms house b/c i can't handle seeing her in a shirt with the back out...i don't even want to go there. This happens a lot in our house- Mom buys them things out of age range - for instance 6 y/o got a cell phone for x-mas then realized it is no fun when you have no one to call...so she asked to have something else. she what we are up against? the mom makes me nuts.