A good friend of mine told me about this site so I figured I would give it a shot.... Let me give you a little info on my situation.. I am a bio mom to 2 wonderful kids and I have 3 equally wonderful step kids... my husband rarely gets his visitation and normally he wont argue with her.. ( hes very passive ) ... she cant stand me... and frankly I dont care for her but keep those thoughts and comments to my self when the boys are around.... well this past friday my husband had enough and demanded visitation... she agreed but made threats of a vpo if my son was around the boys, (this came about because my son was sexually molested when he was 5 and a year ago he acted out sexually which had nothing to do with the boys, but there was an incident where my son walked into the bathroom while their middle child was on the toilett. nothing happened between the two, the youngest screamed and my son jumped back we talked to them both and neither said anything happened now all of a sudden thats why my husband cant see the boys. my son spend 6 months in a mental hospital and has countless years of therapy for this and is still in therapy , we have strict safty plans in effect ).. ignoring the comment my husband said he would be there at the time agreed upon... he drove 2.5 hours to get there and she was no where in sight... he went to her job, she was there, when she seen him she ran and got here mngr and had my husband threatened. My husband called the police and they refused to help, he even asked for an on call DHS worker, ( he also has DHS court mandated visitation as well as divorce decree visitation).. they refused to call them. So he came home.... I dont know what else to do... we are going to fil contempt charges but our finances at the moment can not include an atty at this time... I feel lost... those boys mean the world to me... they are just as much mine as they are his ... thats the way I feel about them and my kids are hurt because they cant see their brothers... any suggestions would bee helfull..