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Pooper is back!!

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:32am

I should've guessed it. We went to the beach the other day. I brought massive amounts of food because SS usually eats for England because he spends all day in the water and actually gets exercise (gasp).

He barely ate anything and his belly looked massive.

I should have known. Last night I grabbed a few of his whites to put in with my uniform to wash and there they were. His swimming shorts...the white mesh liner was absolutely brown.

It allllll makes sense now. I re-engaged and ripped DH a new one more than anything. Same ol same ol you let him rot in his room on his T.V. and this is always always always the result. I changed the PS4 password and am not giving it to either one of those clowns.

Nothing will change but at least he won't be sitting on that gosh forsaken gaming chair staring at his T.V. screen for awhile.

I absolutely 100% do NOT understand Disney Dads and near 15 year olds who don't mind sitting in their own feces. That's all I'll say about that.

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Submitted by Indigo on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:47am

I picked up a fresh horse road-apple with my bare hand today -- stupid thing wouldn't stay on the manure fork. I would prefer doing that every day than handle your laundry pile. It seems cleaner, somehow.

Sympathy. You've had how many years of skidmarks & boy splat?

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 2:01am

5 years. Five long years.

I'd rather touch a horse road-apple to be fair. At least horses are awesome and doing what they should be doing.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 7:52am

HAHA I have done the same thing with the horse poop....doesn't bother me in the least, but the thought of skid poopy hiding out in the laundry basket makes me want to barf. Oh and that one time that I was digging through SD19 laundry basket and there was a used pad still attached to her underwear. Never touched her laundry again. It could grow maggots and pond scum for all I cared.

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Submitted by TwoOfUs on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 10:14am

Horse poop just smells like mown grass and a few other organics, usually. Not at all unpleasant. It does seem loads cleaner (pardon the pun).

OP-you win on worst step situation for today.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:48am

dang Coookies - this kid is way to old, I dare you woman go and buy him adult diapers.... what's wrong with this kid.

stop doing his laundry - what you don't know will not get you disgusted or angry Wink

How was the visit with BS...

hey maybe SS is jealous of BS now he does the pooping thing again

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 2:03am

I never do his laundry. This was a one off, I just needed a few items to make a load.

BS visit was wonderful and I miss him terribly.

SS isn't jealous. He's a lazy, screen addicted, spoiled sloth. Big difference Wink

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Submitted by Monchichi on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 2:26am

This is not something I can cope with. Every time I am exposed to feces, urinated on toilet, unflushed toilets, defecated underwear I become so compulsive I end up on medication. That you and I are not drug addled alcoholics is beyond me.

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Submitted by thisisnotmocking on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:39pm

I'm pretty sure if I had a 15yo that pooped his pants and wasn't bothered by it... I'd be drunk! I wish I could unknow that...

And I was a drunk when I dealt with the bride of chucky Wink

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Submitted by lintini on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 3:45am

Ohhh man. :jawdrop:

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 6:45am

Cooooookies, it's time for DH to be 110% responsible for SS's clothing. SS needs a PLASTIC hamper in his room and DH is responsible for making sure a) the hamper is emptied, b) the hamper is CLEANED with bleach, and c) SS's clothing is washed.

Frankly, I'd make him take SS's poopie clothing to a Laundromat. :sick:

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 7:54am

So do I dare ask??? I'm rather frightened to but I must know... so did SS use the bathroom at all while at the beach, or did he poop in the water???? Or did you mean he came home and sat playing his game and pooped? :?

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 8:06am

Oh my land. Why has your DH allowed this to go on for 15 years???? I would be beside myself if my child acted like this! Especially at 15 freaking years old!!

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 10:31am

I'm guessing if this kid is that addicted to video games that he craps his 15 year old pants and doesn't seem to be bothered by it, that the only "sex" he'll be having is of the choking the chicken kind.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:37pm

Oh his poo was some fish's dinner for sure. He is autistic which doesn't help but the biggest factor is DH letting him be on a screen for, literally, every. waking. moment.

DH doesn't want to hear it and the longer this goes on, the harder it will be to teach this kid how to live a life without an electronic box.

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Submitted by robin333 on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 7:55am

Every time I see your username, I think about Harvey's book " Think like a man, act like a Lady". He refers to nookie as a cookie- and you know I remember the stepmom porn blog.

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Submitted by FieryEscape on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 8:57am

Ewwwww !!! You DH should be taking SS clothes to a laundry mat to clean ....I wouldn't want that filth in my washer.

Almost 15 ? Holy hell......I'd go nuts . So unhygienic ....I am not a germophobe , but if that kid was in my house I would be using lysol wipes on EVERYTHING he touches.

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Submitted by agitated on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 9:10am

I'm sorry; I have NO words for this. :jawdrop: If my young adults crapped their pants and weren't sick (aka diarrhea) they would be wearing diapers. I'm not even joking. I would "hopefully" embarrass them into getting up from the TV to go poop for goodness sake.

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 10:10am

He definitely needs to be in some kind of pull-ups for older kids.

Aren't there any kinds of activities your DH can help him get into to get him away from sitting on his arse all day in front of a screen?

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 10:33am

It is just bad parenting to let kids be on electronics all the time. I limit bs' s and make sure he is doing other things. He is the parent...he needs to parents.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:42pm

My DH is a Disney dad. It is horrible parenting but I am disengaged...that is until fecal matter and my appliances are involved. There are many activities he could do with SS and screen time could be limited. That would require effort and actual parenting.

I'm not holding my breath...

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Submitted by notsobad on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 1:56pm

This is just so sad.
Does DH not realize that he's setting his son up for such a terrible life? Does he not love this kid?

I don't know what I'd do, other than throwing out anything that had any remnants of poop on it. If anyone ever asked where all SS's underwear, shorts, swimsuits and pants have gone I'd tell them "They had poop in them and were thrown out"
DH can continue to buy this kids bottoms if he wants.

I would also pull the plug on all games in my house. Change the wifi password regularly and not give it to anyone. Sorry, but I'd passive aggressively say I didn't know what was wrong with it and that I'd call the company the next day to find out.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 2:24pm

He loves him to bits. Problem is he is led with guilt and pity. Guilt for his life being torn up during the divorce. Guilt for leaving him with BM2 for a year because he was literally starving in Cyprus and had to move back to England and start over.

Pity because he has autism. Pity because his own mother has F all to do with him.

He knows none of this helps and what I keep saying is completely right. He KNOWS...but getting past the pity and guilt is the challenge.

I wish I knew what to do to permanently fix this.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 2:28pm

One thing I've figured out is changing his PS4 password. I can do it on my laptop and then SS can't use it because the pw he has saved on his PS4 doesn't match.

Now he won't get it until I get home at 6.30pm. He will go without it all day and only have it for a few hours at night.

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Submitted by DarkStar on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 3:55pm

Hello my fellow sister in sh!t!!! My pooper SS has not technically pooped his pants in a long time, unless you count the disgusting chunky skid marks in his underwear :sick:

He HAS however, peed his pants twice in the past couple of weeks. Once in FDH's Jeep Grand Cherokee.....he was PISSED!!!!! Pun intended!

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 4:23pm

Hello my fellow sister in sh!t Smile

It is unfortunate that there are several of us on here. I cannot even wish this stuff on my worst enemy. It just defies all logic how these skids can sit in their waste and not have it bother them. It is beyond disgusting.

Also I would count chunky skid marks as still pooping. :sick:

Let us commiserate together.