Ok! We gave ss a conseqence for repeated telling of mine and the kids personal information.
We have ss a consequence of sitting in his room for three days without Xbox or doing anything fun outside of house. Of course the day we start the consequence, it's the he goes for visitation with Mom and of course he gets to do fun things and complains about how bad it is here. So you all can guess the outcome of this meeting.
Really not looking forward to tonight... Sometimes I wish I could disappear. My husband will stick up for me so it's going to be a heated fight with the ex tonight...
Can anyone relate?
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There doesn't need to be a
There doesn't need to be a heated fight between your H and his ex.
SS boohoo's to mommy dearest, mommy dearest tries to start some shit, H shuts her down with My House, My Rules. He broke the rules, he's paying the consequences. End of story.
DH goes and picks him up and
DH goes and picks him up and does not engage with his ex. Or he can tell her "If you think what he is saying about us is funny then you should hear what he says about you!"
He brings SS home and into his room he goes.
This! This should help her
This! This should help her understand that you want your privacy and realize ss needs to be punished
This stuff just makes me so
This stuff just makes me so nervous. I never had the issues with my ex like he has with his. My oldest kids dad is completely out of the picture because him kidnapping them and my two years old day works with me pretty well most of the time. There never any of this
Typically BMs are worse than
Typically BMs are worse than ex husbands (not always there are exceptions). Women are often fueled more by emotions than men are (again not always), so they aren't always rational or easy to deal with.
His house. His rules. All
His house. His rules. All there is to it. Simple.
I agree. BM can suck it. It's
I agree. BM can suck it. It's not her house, she has no say in it. It's not like you chained the kid in the basement with no food or water.
Wait, are we allowed to do
Wait, are we allowed to do that???? The basement chain thing...can we do that???? Hmmmmmmm....
Man....your so strict.
Man....your so strict.
You my dear are wonderful.
You my dear are wonderful.
Or mysteriously have them
Or mysteriously have them disappear when they get left out. Just make sure little nieces and/or nephews or friends with babies are over. Then oops the baby must have thrown it away when I asked them to clean up.