And this is why I didn't go to the pick up!!
BM texted DH today, "I don't know why I am surprised Completely doesn't care. She couldn't even be bothered to come with you to pick up your kids. I told you I needed to talk to her."
By talk to me, she means she needed to instruct me on how to parent her kids! Um, no thank you. I am not the one who is homeless and has an open investigation with CPS. I think I can do just fine without your specific instructions.
On a side note, my MIL was there and she apparently gave her a rundown. Too bad, MIL lives in a different state and isn't going to see the girls this entire visit.
I get so tired of BM's crap. It is always something. If I had to guess, she is gearing up because we have a custody hearing coming up. Her fake abuse allegations haven't worked so she is on to the next thing. SMH!
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Because SHE needs to talk to
Because SHE needs to talk to you? Oh hell no!
BM tried to tell me how to
BM tried to tell me how to parent once. I laughed and told her that I was perfectly able to parent all on my own without CPS involved in my BS30's life. I didn't need her advice. Thank you....bub bye!!
BM2 made some dumb ass
BM2 made some dumb ass comment to me (prior to BS5) that "maybe when I was a parent I might just understand" I flipped shit. Told her I wouldn't be taking Parenting 101 classes from a mother who let her unsupervised kid (SS16 when he was 3) fall out of a 3rd story window, a mother who let her unsupervised kid (SS16 when he was 4) third degree burn his hand with an iron... I was still unleashing when she hung up on me. Whatever. She's also the same MOTY who gave SS condoms at age 11, knowingly lets him smoke dope whenever he pleases, knowingly lets him go to underage drinking parties since he was 13, and Lord knows what else we DON'T know about. But sure BM2, let me get some parenting tips from you! :?
I love how these shitty BMs
I love how these shitty BMs are so quick to dish out the insults before looking at their own crusty underwear. I mean BM1 hasn't had SD17 since she was a baby. SD lived with GBM (her choice) until she was 15 and moved in with us (again, her choice) and she lived with us for the past 2 years. BM1 hasn't had a job since Jesus was a baby, never paid a penny in child support, is constantly getting evicted, arrested and knocked up (5 kids, 3 baby daddies) yet when SD17 left in January, to move 3 states away to live with DH's Aunt because she was failing ALL of her classes, getting arrested, lying, being a filthy slob, not following rules and generally acting the fool, BM1 had the nerve to tell DH that SD17 moving was all MY fault???? WTF? I just wish she would have said it to my face, because I would have unleashed. I mean what freaking fantasy world are these skanks living in???
I always say it would be
I always say it would be worth the fine for assault if BM were to say anything to my face.
BM told me how great of a
BM told me how great of a Mother she is and she knows what to do. Mind you, this was after she lost her kids for neglect. She never did get custody back and almost lost all of her rights. But by damn, she knows how to be a parent...a shitty one.
That's one thing that I never
That's one thing that I never had to deal with was BM attempting to critique my parenting. She was very insecure because I was a TRUE single mom for 10 years before DH and I got married. I put myself through college and didn't even start getting CS until after I had met DH. I didn't have my parents in town or any relatives to help out. She didn't have a psychotic leg to stand on. She, to this day, doesn't even have holidays at her place because she doesn't cook!
I have never understood why
I have never understood why some BMs think they should "talk" with the SM. I don't need to talk to my exs girlfriend about out son. I only need to talk to my ex. I expect HIM to be the parent.
You know, I really think it is only SMs that don't want to really be a parent that needs to talk to the SM. Denture Debbie did this with me....and guess who is not a parent to SD...her toothless ass.