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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 11:45am

I wonder why some BMs get jealous and go nuts when their ex has a child with someone else. Bm² went nuts when she found out about both of my kids. No one is telling her about this pregnancy. Usually my MIL spills the beans but nope not this time. Due to the falling out they had last fall MIL refuses to answer any of BM²'s phone calls plus that racist comment she made about my children really pushed her further into the hole. I found a pic of SS and he was exact same color as my kids! It just proves everyone's theory that BM² has skin color issues. Smh if you compare the pics from last year to the pic when he was darker he looks sun deprived. Poor kid needs to out in the sun and play!

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 12:24pm

I don't understand why women are jealous no matter which side of the fence they are on.

There are BMs who are jealous when dad has new kids.

There are SMs who are jealous because dad had kids with someone else.

It's just crazy. The man had a life before meeting the new spouse. He will contine to have a life when he leaves the old spouse.

Women in both camps need to grow up.

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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 12:43pm

Yeah I don't understand the jealous SM part of it either because there obviously was a relationship before them. Bm² loves to try and remind me that my husband was once her boyfriend. Pfft! I used to let it bother me but over the years I've realized that had she not been with DH before me and treated him so badly he would probably take me for granted.

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 12:47pm

They are jealous simply because they & their kids are no longer the center of this mans universe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 12:53pm

I know this is crappy but DH never wanted SS because of how psychotic BM² was. After 4 years of them not conceiving she magically got pregnant after they broke up. She tried to trap DH by saying she couldn't get pregnant.

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Submitted by Hanny on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 12:53pm

Just this weekend I was at condo pool. Someone I don't know came into pool area with a hookah and a bottle of champagne. She came over to me with a gladd of champagne and asked if I wanted to share. I said sure, what are we celebrating? She said 'my misery'. Then proceeded to tell me how furious she was with her ex because he just got married, and was going to proceed to have a baby. She said they agreed 15 years ago when they divorced that neighter of them would get married or have children until their son was 18. He is 15 now. Her husband has been with this woman for 10 years and she is younger (he is 48) and wants to have a family. She kept going on and on about how her son would just be 'shattered'. and kept saying why would he want to marry someone who their son hated. and of course the son just 'loves' her BF. Oh...it was so hard not to say anything...I just sat there and listened. Yea, I know I took the easy way out, but I'm not good with confrontations. I'm sure their son will be 'shattered' because his mom will enable him to be!

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Submitted by Hanny on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 4:01pm

So many times I have wanted to say to them 'you know it was your moms fault your parents aren't together - she was cheating on your dad and said 'if you don't like it, move out, and I'm not hurting the girls, I'm home by the time they wake up'! I never would, but it would feel good. Maybe someday they will find out, but it won't be through me.

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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 4:20pm

BM² cheated on DH with several guys and when she told DH she was pregnant DH told her it couldn't possibly be his besides she married someone behind DH's back.