SO went ahead and did the stupid meeting with BM anyway, which I said I didn't approve of and the reasons why; which also consequently replaced the meeting that WE wanted to have with SD because it was her bedtime when SO finally came home...
AND HE DIDN'T SAY ONE WORD TO ME ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED!!! Not the whole evening after that. Frankly, I was too sick of the topic to try and pry the information out, but I am curious to know what went on.
On the other hand, my ex came to the house yesterday afternoon to drop something off for BD8, and I ended up getting stuck talking to him outside for 20+ minutes, and I told SO why I was out there and what he wanted to talk about within 5 minutes of coming back in.
Not really sure what to think, but will try calling him before I go in to work to at least get a good,bad,or ugly report, since that's about the only time we can talk "privately" unless the kids happen to not be home for whatever reason.