Ewwwwww BM is seriously effed up!!!!

SO had to take SD by her mom's yesterday to pick something up. I don't even know what it was but now I believe it was a ruse to get him over there so they could tag team him. He gets there and she goes in the house and out comes BM up to his truck because she wants to talk to him. He was like ok what's up. She starts in about SD's feeling unloved and invisible at our house. He never pays attention to her he never holds her, lets her sit in his lap, fall asleep in his arms :jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop: . This child is 15 freaking years old and the same size as me!!! How creepy is that!!!!!!

Then SD comes out and starts the boo hoo tears about it as well. He was freaked out didn't know how to react. He felt bad because SD was crying but was seriously creeped out that they both felt he needed to be all touchy feely with SD. He just cut it short told SD to get in the truck and high tailed it out of there. All the while BM is yelling at him cussing him out. Telling him he picks his GF over his kids and blah blah blah.

Seriously creeped us both out for the rest of the night :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:

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weird...well it sounds like

weird...well it sounds like your DH handled it well!

I think giving children and

I think giving children and teens affection is a positive thing but it can go overboard.What the BM did here is just plain wrong.She's putting all kinds of ideas into SD's head and it isn't right.What she really means is "you're choosing your girlfriend over staying single and pining for me for the rest of your life and I am not emotionally mature enough to handle that distance.I'm jealous and using our daughter as a whip to crack"

lol thanks...it's like I've

lol thanks...it's like I've been there done that or something :O

For me,it depends on the

For me,it depends on the situation and the child.

Until I got to the age of

Until I got to the age of your SD, I thought BM was talking about a 5 or 6 year old.

I never once fell asleep in my dad's arms as a teenager. Or a preteen, for that matter.

She is one of those BMs who can't/won't separate themselves from their children, as in, "You don't love US anymore, you have moved on from US, WE are not a part of your life now." She is putting all of her crap onto her teenage daughter.

No, bitch, he has moved on from YOU and only YOU. You are the one he does not love, leave your daughter out of it.

She_Sparkles nailed it.

BARF - me too. My jaw

BARF - me too. My jaw dropped when I saw she was freakin' FIFTEEN!

Eeewwwwww!

Thanks everyone!! I knew we

Thanks everyone!! I knew we were justified in feeling totally creeped out by it. But this BM is a real whacko!!! She really believes that he should be doing all this with SD because it is totally appropriate :? :?

She keeps putting all this nonsense in SD's head and it is really hard to undo. When SO started parenting SD and not letting her call all the shots and she actually responded well to it. Her BM did not and now this BS has started up. She has SD thinking her dad must not love her if he isn't all touchy feely with her :sick: :sick:

He talked to her last night for a while about it but he was so uncomfortable and she was upset so I don't know how well it went.

I wish he could tell her what She_Sparkles said because that is the truth 100%!!!!!!

Bingo!

Were these things that DH

Were these things that DH EVER did with SD?? BM is making it sound like DH used to do all of these things with SD until you came along.. but if your DH is creeped out then I suspect that he didn't and BM is a bag of crazy chips

"a bag of crazy

"a bag of crazy chips"

ROFLMAO

with a side of "nutty dip?"