Hi, im looking for serious advice. Please keep rude comments to yourself, this is serious & I find it sad that Im about to spill out my private information for help to people I do not know. This is hard enough for me so please just dont, Thank you.

My husband was recently granted custody of his two daughters 5&7Yrs old in june this year after a 3 yr custody battle. I also have two boys who are biologically mine ages 2 & 4. My family life style and morals have forever been changed and ruined my two boys, myself and nephew are in danger! It all started when we unexpectedly had to rush to Ohio two days earlier then planned to pack up my step daughters and move them to our home in North Carolina . There was an emergency regarding my 5 yr old stepdaughter. Her Great Grand Father (&great grand mother) who had been taking care of her and her sister for 3 years, ran her over with a riding lawn mower!!!!! She lost two toes in the accident. When she was discharged we packed the girls up and took them with us. We knew they were sexually abused by their mothers ex boyfriends and also learned many horrible things by seeing their mother act out sexually in front of them, using drugs, pills, snorting, needle using & shoplifting. She eventually went to prison and she sign her children over under temporary custody to her grand parents. Well it came out these children needed special attention when children services caught these two children masturbating on camera in the waiting room. So they've had therapy for 3 years. We were told they were better and hadnt had an episode in months. We saw the girls when we could due to the fact my husband was in the army and we went to Germany for our first duty station. We pcs to NC. We were stoked to havethe girls with us all finally!! Until they came into my home and started hurting my baby boys each other and my autistic nephew! I finally broke down and called their greatgrand mother she then informs me she told thegirls it was ok to touch themselves at night in bed under their covers. Also found out the oldest was caught sticking baby bottles and markers inside of her younger sister Crazy right? Why didnt anyone tell us this? Ws doesnt their Father know these things? Well they admitt to us that they do it bc it feels good. Anyways to make a long story short the 5 yr old i believe is bat shit crazy because her older sister. The oldest is sneaky she has been caught rubbing her privates on the couch toys blankets stuffed animals her sisters back. They steal from kids at school and stores ,i cant take them anywhere. The therapist here was fired. The more visits w her the worse things got. Of coarse children services is involved from ohio and the lawn mower acxident. Im telling this case worker what is happening and she tells me its mine and my husbands fault that it falls under supervision issues. Can you believe this i didnt shower some days bc i watch them like hawks and i have no time! They havestole nail clippers from walmart and used them to clip chunks of skin from my oldest son 4, butt!!!! And my nephews back!!!! The yougest just sits and stares a hole threw me with no emotion no rremorse not a care in the world she will not answer when spoken to. The 5 yr old took my autistic nephew out of his swing at the payground while we were cleaning up our pinic mess and packing the diaper bags. The swing put himto sleep we were seriously 5 feet away at a bench beside the swing set. When we got home i asked her why she told me she thought he would run into tthe woods or into the pond. They both ppoop and pee their pants just to tick me off. They use the bathroom every 30 minutes just to be nosey through the house until i caught on. They lie constantly when its not even something to lie about as if their in trouble. No they just lie to lie. Just last night i ask the 5 yr to apologize to the ones she woke up at 5am screaming kicking the door that she had to pee she would NOT saysorry!. I made her leave the door open while she went bc the boys were in bed w me to keep them safe from their own room. This girl did not pee or anything she sat on the toilet for 2minutes got up and flushed the toilet and stares into my room as she walks by. She told me she doesnt like me. The youngest will act shy quiet innocent abd sweet but catch her whenshe thinks noone is watching her. She acts stupid wont brush hed teeth or hair for nothing not even school, puts her shoes on the wrongfeet shoes laces untied, sits at the dinner table with homework all bight and acts like she cant do it. Hours this child will sit for hours before she tells you it says THE or AND RED, this kid writes her grandma letters. I spelled icecream one day bc we were in front of children and she shouted out what i had spelled. Theyre both extremely manipulative and sacasti!!! They have attitudes like 15 yr olds. They have toys they do not play withtherefore they alllook new. They would rather watch teen mom and mtv. Isnt that nuts. I found a tablet in their room that the oldest was writting in. She said shain doesnt love me anymore he likes girls w blonde hair pretty lips and hott bodies. Imsorry but if i can remember correctly when i was 7 boys were gross and i played barbies all day. That kind of stuff is too grown. I have to hide the knives and scissors. They started hurting the other kids by accident then. My oldest son 4 had bruises all over his feet from tgem both stomping on my babies feet....on accident. How do i restrain myself from going after them? The oldest girl told my son to drink mouthwash when i sent them to brush their teeth. She had no idea i was in the hall and peeking into the bathroom. He did not drink it!!! Thank goodness. The oldest girl slams doors i believe she does in hopes to hurt someone when their near by she does things so weird and skick that your not sure if it was on purpose or not she has slammed doors on fingers and toes drawing blood on the other kids.the oldest has tajen xare of hed little sister made her food changed her diapers while their mother was in and out of reality fron drugs and going out to party leacibg them home alonefor the oldest to feelresponsible for her sister like a mother. She has picked up hef mothers pils she dropped from her dresser befire her little sister didbt get ahold of them. Thats what she will tell you. She also knows and will tekk you her nither steals and sold her Christmas gifts. She acts like she is so nice and loves babies but will pinch the crap out of them or accidentally drop them. She wilk run ful force into the boys and say it was an accident. She acts like she cares about other ppls well being but she doesnt. Its an axt both of them do this its disgusting! I literally walked out of the kitch for a few seconds its was immediately almost as soon as i turb around my 4 yr old boy started to choke but i didnt respond right then it didnt click then i heard a choking sound my husband and i ran in and both of the girls just sat and watched. If it had been one of the girls tto choke the other would yell for an adult and slapping their backs just to help them until an adult arrives. The 7 yr old watched her 2 yr old little baby brother run towards the road and by time i noticed him i had to run like a super hero bc he was amost hit by a car. This was After school as werewalking across the school playground and yard. I dont try to put grown up things on her but it hust goe to show she saw hin in danged and said nothing. It basically tells me everything about her. i took their bedroom door off ans put up a baby gate so the other kids couldnt go in their room when i caught them rubbing private on eachother so the 5 yr old girl sets by the baby gate and waits for my 4 yr old boy cane running threw the hall past their door and she sticks her arm out and slams his head into the side of their door frame. I have to lock them in their rooms bc they were coming out and going into the boys room and hurting them. They wont tell me what they did. It kills me. Them are my babies and its my job as a mother toprotect my children. The punishments are not working and my husband doesnt know how to handle it and is stressed out. Im planning on moving into an apartment with my boys. Im not the same psrson anymore .i hate coming home from work it make my stomach turn looking at then or thinking about them. When i leave and my boys see their daddy how will i force him to find a sitter for his daughters while he sees them? This is so hard my life sucks so bad now i just wan to be happy a havent laughex in along long long time. I feel like crying all the time but nothing comes out but anger. Im sick of the constant bull crap. Im sick of the constant questions like can i put my sicks in the dirty clothes can i fix the sheet on my bed. What the hell. Theattention has to be on the at all times. The therapist said whoopins wont work that they have lots of issues and it will be awhile before we saw progress. The girls cane home and told the others they wont be getting whoopins .well thats a lie bc i will whoop! My parents did it to me and i was perfectly fine. until these two evil children came in and ruined it. They think their boss and they make the rules. My husvand gets so mad and ran oyt of energy and punishments that he doesnt do anything ti them so their getting awa with this crap with him. Well the next therapy appt. They tell her we whooped them and slapped their mouth. Thinking it would get us in trouble! This isout of hand and i cannot build sstructure in this house with all this nonsense . Who do i contact who will help me. All cps wants to do is blame us. When we spend our whole days on watching their every move eben while eating with the other kids. I called for a tour of juvenile centers here but i think its better to send them to a youth center and get treatment bur i haveno idea how to go about it. Are there any for childreb this young. These ppl will. Think im insane bc how young and manipulating they are. I cannot live like this any longer. Please pray for us. Im hoping God is doing this for a damb good reason bc im going o give myself a heart attack. Im always scared tired and sluggish and ew. Im not me anymore. I justwant my boys and nephew safe. Please if you know something or a place to go. Am i being ununreasonal? Please give me your thoughts. What if at this very moment we changed bodies. What would youvve done or do..

Sorry about all my typos my computer is not working so im using my phone. Its suppose to be autocorect but it types horrible errors or deletes my words. Anyways your helpful opinions are appreciated