I do because they live with me and I raised them. No different than a bio kid in my home. Also my husband doesn't do Facebook, so he wouldnt be able to check up. I still look at my SS19 instagram page, it usually mortifies me so I don't do it very often.

Sure will. When he is old enough to have one. He is one of my kids (go ahead, blast me for it, I don't care... I have raised him, I will claim him). I am the one that monitors that kind of stuff in our house. We will have his password, or he won't have a page. Period.

I think if they live with you then yes, if not the custodial parent *should
if you KNOW The custodian parent does not, then yes I think you should

I'm all about 'stalking' my kid on the internet (I watch what she does every day)

she knows it and it keeps her in check

I looked when SS was young because I was trying to show DH all of the horrible stuff SS put on there. (this was my space) He and BM really did not care and I discovered it was not my place to tell DH any thing about HIS kid. I still look though...just for general amusement.

This post made me go check SS27's FB page. I check every once in a while to see if he is dead or anything since BM wouldn't tell us if he was. (for those that are new BM did not tell DH when SS34 died).

BM has recently joined FB. She posts many times a day on SS's page about Jesus. Really sappy crap. My favorite was something like "even if you treat others with respect they may not return the favor" "even if you are a good person you can't count on others to be good".

BM is the biggest asshole on the face of this earth. Such hypocrisy.

I'd like to go paraphrase that and post:

Even if people treat you with love and kindness BM has permission to be a self centered bitch.

Even if those around you are good, decent people BM does not have to do anything but take care of herself above all others.

But I won't as I do not engage her.

I do for my Bio and my SD17. She may not live with me, but I only follow her twitter occasionally to make sure she is not putting anything stupid out there. Also, to make sure I know what she is up to the next time DH tells me she has changed, I can be sure and point out her language and disgusting pics she posts to re-affirm why she is not coming back into my home....

The enemy you know....

I do because I'm nosy and it's been insightful.

I do too but we all get along for the most part and my skids very rarely post anything. When they do its silly stuff. My kids yes I do all the time. But again mainly silly stuff. However my dd20 is the one I really look at so I know what us going on she doesn't live with us so I use it to keep up with her. She don't mind as she is smart enough to nor put nasty or mean things on there.

I found that if you type a person's twitter account name in google, you can view parts of their page. So... I do it for amusement because right now there is a lot of drama going on with the one SK.

I don't share any of it with DH. But because this drama involves my DD (even though she tries to steer clear of it) I do want to know what's going on.