patience is feather thin

well, this is my first blog....my story is crazy... i have 4 skids, 32,31,26,23 the two older ones are from one mommy & the two younger ones are from another mommy...i helped raise,feed,love,help,adore,PTA,swim meet,share broken hearts & all the normal mother roles for the two younger ones,their mom was not involved with them...when i married my h,one of the older ones stopped talking to us for 9 years,then in 2009 she came back into h (our) life...ever since then it has been pure hell drama...she is the devil !!! we had a pretty good blended family that mixed well,this devil skid has come to the party & has ruined my relationship with the youngest skid,the devil skid has told as many people/family & who else she could tell that i broke up their family ( my h was married twice & i am the 3rd) 100% not true, but my little one believes her & does not want to have a relationship with me, she has gone to the 1st skids bio mom & calls her mom ?? & her bio mom & the devil skids bio mom are best friends now ? now can anyone tell me what the heck happened ?????? since 2009 this devil skid has made my life a living hell, i love family but i am thinking it is time for me to go.....

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Well? I think my husband

Well? I think my husband loves his kids so much & he thinks that I need to ignore this... I expressed to him my heartache all along the way, but I guess he doesnt get it... so that shows me that he doesnt support me...

Yes, I believe you & I know

Yes, I believe you & I know that If & When that event happens, I know my husband will be devastated... but somehow I think that I will be the blame... great sadness by myself thinking about what the heck happened ? how does my husband cope with this ? well that is what I believe,my husband will be the ultimate loser in the end...& I married him,loved him & helped him with his two younger children....I have been thinking over & over ways to make this right but it just cant be fixed... I do not, seriously, want to harm my husbands relationships with his daughters but at the same time, I want out of this problem too.... I guess my husband & I are the sacrifices......