I am so furious and frustrated and heartbroken again today. It comes in waves, I'm okay for a few days, then something new happens, and it crushes my spirit all over again.

If you've been following, FDH has been trying to get custody of SS10 and SS7 for over seventeen months since bottom feeder BM sent an email "mistakenly" that she was going to move the SS's 2k miles away and live her own new life. She cannot care for the kids, they got taken away from her care by dfcs, and right before that she filed a restraining order (tpo) with a false statement that FDH abused SS7 that got dropped like a hot potato in court but not before the kids got taken from HER

SS7 has been uncontrollable with his foster care family that he was placed with for his special needs, and it got worse after he visited FDH and BM because now he wants to go home obviously, and nad a bad weekend, and even tried to jump out the window so he had a big cut across his nose, so he was taken to a children's hospital yesterday afternoon for evaluation by the social worker and got transported back a behavioral hospital last night. It's one of the two he's been to before. BM hates ths hospital because they told her it was more of a parenting and discipline issue than SS7 needing to be more medicated (she had him stoned out of his mind on 3 different meds so she could manage him). I wonder if she knows yet that he's there because it gets interesting...

The social worker for SS10 have had no issues with him, he seems to be fine with his family.

The social worker for SS7 has called FDH four different times since the visit at the center last week for him to try and get SS7 calmed down enough to transport him and reason with him, etc. They had not notified BM as of last night, or she wasn't told she could go to the hospital, assuming b/c when she was saying her goodbyes at visitation Thursday is when SS7 got all worked up and the social worker asked FDH go back in the room with her to get him calmed down.

So the social worker called FDH last night a few hours after notifying him that SS7 was going to the children's hospital and asked if he could please come up there and be with SS7 and try to calm and comfort him. I would think this is all great stuff in FDH's favor, right??? Well...then FDH spoke to this attorney and THIS happened:

The stupid DA in skid county has decided since dfcs in let this shit get to this point after numerous calls on BM by the hospitals and therapists, even though FDH has been trying for 17 mo to get custody, that both parents have been given every chance to take care of the boys, and there were allegations on both sides, even though hers were dropped I guess they are taking no chances now, so it's a mess. The DA is petitioning to have the kids stay in dfcs care for another 60 days, having both of them get psych evaluations, parenting classes, possible anger management (even though FDH has had an anger evaluation with no red flags). I'm so pissed right now. WHEN did they give BOTH parents a chance? Yeah they gave bottom feeder a billion chances, therapy, in home visits, social workers, medicaid, food stamps, special educational programs and recommendations, everything short of taking care of those damn kids for her, and look how far THAT shit went.

Almost funny, found out from the attorney that BM got upset that SS7 got restrained at new school while in foster care (she gets mad when anyone has to do this at any of the three schools he's been to this year for special needs) and called the Governor's office in our state on dfcs!