So DH has been paying Crazy $650/month for Demon and SS18, 50/50 custody. When this was decided 2 years ago, Crazy allegedly made $36K/year, although they accepted that amount without her submitting her taxes or anything. SS graduated high school in June, which is when DH is done with CS in our state. He filed to take him off in July. The CS agency said nope- even with taking SS off, CS wouldn't be reduced by "$50 or 10%", so they wouldn't reduce the payment of $650/month. DH filed to have a judge review. 

Court was yesterday. The judge asked the CS agency what their recommendation was for DH to pay- they said "$525/month". DH said, wait a minute- you said it wasn't going to be reduced by more than $50 or 10%, so you never reduced it! They hemmed and hawed and threw out some excuse about staffing changes. The judge said "Well you ended up here anyway". DH said yes, but I have been paying too much since July. They agreed to credit him back what he has overpayed since July. They asked Crazy what she thought she was owed and of course she said she thought it should be kept at $650/month. Nice try. So it was reduced, but only by $125/month. We now know via SS that Crazy makes about $65K-$70K/year, but DH found out yesterday that they used $36K/year for this filing! How is that even possible? He had to submit tax records and a complete history with pay stubs. He was planning on asking for the records, but it looks like only a lawyer can subpoena them in our state. Either way he should still be paying less than $525/month because she makes almost double what they used. 

THEN- DH pays for SS's health insurance- Crazy pays nothing. SS is 18 so this should be neither here nor there. But DH disclosed that he pays for it. They are charging him $65/MONTH, Penalizing him for paying for SS's ins! And Crazy is getting the $! He technically should be paying her $460/month, but she is getting $65/mo for SS's ins, so $525. In what world does this make sense? He is 18 and it has nothing to do with her! DH asked all of these questions and no one had an answer. It is the most messed up, infuriating system ever. 

In other news, last night DH's phone was dinging at 12:30am and I was trying to sleep so I looked at it to see if it was on DND and it was a text from SS- (it was 1:30am his time) saying "How far are condoms supposed to go down on your weiner? Because the ones you bought me don't go all the way down". GAHHH. I cannot unsee this. What 18yr old calls it a weiner??? He said that 2yrs ago and DH told him to never say that again, it's a penis. And FFS, you are 18 and in college- Google! Youtube! Don't text daddy at 12:30am! He also has a gf that lives in our state, so not sure who these are for. She is going down to visit him with her mom next wknd, but idk if they have sex. All around, yuck.