We Received BM's Travel Letter
BM's notarized and signed travel consent letter arrived in the mail today. DH and I held our breaths as we opened it... It is literally the exact same letter DH sent BM, aside from her rewording a few phrases like "consent" instead of "authorize" and spelling out SS's birthdate instead of xx/xx/xxxx format we put. She also shifted the signature spot from the right side of the paper to the left. I'm sure BM thinks she won because she "sent her own letter" and controlled the situation, but were the ones laughing because we literally got the perfect letter we needed without issue and nowhere in it did it outline "sole custodial GUHCBM" or include GF's name or "we" anywhere. We literally win. Oh BM, how pathetic is it?
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That is hilarious! She just has to control every little thing
That is hilarious! She just has to control everl little thing in some way. Oh well, take the win where you can!
What a nut.
What a nut.
Lol. Pathetic is as pathetic
Lol. Pathetic is as pathetic does.
BM... is pathetic.
Enjoy your trip and don't forget to highlight to SS that you deliver on the trips you commit to. Unlike BM and her GF who... have yet to deliver on their grandiose promises of international adventure.
Controlling people can be
Controlling people can be really annoying PITA sometimes
good thing she did what she was supposed to do for the kids sake. She already knew she was in too deep (the paid arrangements, the travel itinerary, the kids excitement at traveling etc) to eff it up with her neurotic ways.
These kids be having long memories and will certainly write you off if you fumble their vacation excursions
*** watermark your vacation pics of ss so she can't use social media to take credit /pass those pics off as her own as if she took him on the vacation
So true.
kids be having long memories and will certainly write you off if you.....
They will write you off for any manipulative bullshit for that matter. UNLESS, note the BIG bold unless, they are kept fully abreast of the facts, truth, CO, rules, regs, and repeatedly see the ass baring of their toxic parent that perpetrates the bullshit, etc....
So many in the COD world avoid the truth and facts like they are an STD. Rather than the penicillin and vaccine against toxicity, lies, manipulation, and PAS that the facts are.
Regardless of how effectively the quality side of the blended family equation may or may not be able to enforce accountability on the shallow and polluted side of the equation, facts as always are neither good nor are they bad. They are merely facts. Keeping the kids fully abreast of the facts regarding the whoe situation , in an age appropriate manner, is what IMHO the kids are owed by the quality side of the equation. The toxic side, won't do it. That side lies, manipulates, etc...
Kids need the facts and the truth when they are cursed with toxically shallow and polluted end to their gene pool.
IMHO and experience of course.
The BEST revenge is knowing
The BEST revenge is knowing that BM is allowing the OP and her DH to take up a LOT of space in her head. She's clearly a miserable human being if she expends this much energy finding little ways to "stick it to them."
It’s a win.
Don't look gift horse where ever. Have fun planning your trip. Web site. '' Cruise Critic Message board "great board on cruising. Has each cruise line listed . Has a place where your ship for your cruise is listed. You can pre talk to your cruise mates. Has ports and activities.
Prepare yourself for a snarky
Prepare yourself for a snarky remark from SS about the trip (echoing BMs words).... he's old enough to know what's rude and what's not-- so I'd hold him accountable but also take it as a moment to point out hypocracy with BM. He's old enough to see that, too.