Stress
Just woke up with pain in stomache. Came to work. I know it's stress. I just can't take this much stress anymore. Its been maybe 2 or 3 weeks i'm not even alone at my own home. Yesterday i way lying down after work, and dh was cleaning, door ring and sd and her f.. friend came inside. I was resting at my own damn home which i pay for. I woke up with their loud voices and i felt very disturbed. Dh was kind of sorry but no he is not sorry at all. he said if you want to rest go to our room. I went to the room closed the door and dint come our even for toilet. I took shower at 1 Am when everyone was sleeping. I was angry that i dould hav eheart attack. I'm being used. I hate Sd i hate bm i hate dh. I hate myself to put me in this situation. I hate life.
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This is serious. You cannot
This is serious. You cannot continue like this and your DH needs to buck up and see what is happening to you. If you suddenly cannot work for whatever reason, how will he survive? How will he pay the bills? How will he be able to feed his princess?
OK, so you need an escape plan. Do you want to save your marriage? Is it worth saving? Either way, go and talk to a lawyer about what your rights and possibilities are. My fear is that, because he won't work, you'll be liable for alimony ... How long have you been married? I think you'll start to feel better once you get the ball rolling.
Whether you are right or
Whether you are right or wrong for not wanting your husband to have his child in the home is irrelevant.. whether it is normal or not normal for kids to have friends over during the daytime or not.. is irrelevant.. whether a husband at home with a sick wife should tell his child to keep the noise down or not.. is also irrelevant.
You are miserable.. you cannot take even fairly begnin exposure to his child.. you have to remove yourself from the situation.. your response and your health concerns are not normal responses to steplife.. I am not saying you are wrong for your feelings.. but you cannot survive in this house.. so you need to end it.
I think the answer is to
I think the answer is to leave your husband, and therefore his daughter.
You must realize a man who
Has a child will have that child stay over. You had to know this before you got together with your SO. Step life is not for everyone. Nothing to be ashamed about. You just can't do it. You must stop this relationship.. He not going to stop seeing his DD. ..