Overheard at Dinner.. who's SD is this???
So, My DH and I were trying to enjoy a nice dinner at a waterfront restaurant.. and had the luck of sitting about 20 feet from a couple of ladies who were clearly in a dissect and drama discussion. One of the ladies was definitely a "loud talker".. completely oblivious to the fact that what she was talking about was no one's business.. nor did they WANT to hear it.. or have their quiet dinner interrupted by her harpy opintions. but alas.. we got to hear much of it.
It didn't take long to figure out that these ladies (in their 40's.. maybe early 50"s).. were tearing apart the SM of one of the ladies.. a lot of mumbo about the SM not being properly respectful of the SD etc..
Well.. at one point.. old blond harpy asks the other woman.. "so how old were you when your SM met your father?".. I did not get the exact age.. but I think it was adulthood.. so old harpy loudly says..
"Well... she should know that you know your father much better than she does".. I threw up in my mouth a bit.. lol..
I mean... she is literally putting the SD on the exact same relationship level as his wife.. I would hazard a guess his relationship with the daughter is not as... ahem.. intimate as the one with his wife.
Of course this is post christmas.. I imagine there was some confilct there.
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Hilarious
Well that was entertainment.
Esmod you shouldve piped in. LOL So SD knows better as to what big daddio likes when he snuggles ;)
Society is effed up
Whe it comes to Stepfamilies, society teaches and pushes this agenda.
People change over time. SDs only know a specific aspect of their parents and thats how it should be.
I make sure I slip into
I make sure I slip into conversation with SD's my DH's favorite this and that he loves that ...
I know they have no idea what DH does or doesn't like because they never cared or paid attention. Both of them are all about me me me. BM taught them that my DH is the family dog to be walked all over. I like to rub their noses in the contrast.
Of course skids think they
Of course skids think they know what daddy likes, they think he likes everything they do because he always let them do and have whatever they want.
My husband many years ago said skids don’t know
Everything about their parents. For example, skids don't know my husbands passcode for his iPhone for work- but i do.
skids don't know hubby's monthly salary or yearly bonus- but i do.
skids don't know how much money is in hubbys bank acct or retirement savings- but i do.
skids don't know how much hubbys life insurance policy for work is- but i do.
the reason why i know is because i am his wife, the woman he is actively having sex with and its not of any skid business to know stuff like that. Their place is as the child of their parent, not intimate life partner
many skids believe because they existed longer thatt hey know their parent best. Thats why my sd's think daddy loves to hear them ranting non stop about batshit crazy bio mum when he wants nothing to do with her. Divorcing her was the happiest day of his life till he married me and his dad cried at our wedding out of happiness that my husband finally found someone committed to him and to take care of him.