I'm dumbfounded that a judge put this kid's sports ahead of his relationship with his father.  I don't blame you for not going back to court after the result you got.  It's very sad for the child, though.  Team sports can be a good experience, and a learning experience, for kids, but it's highly unlikely that this kid is going to be a professional or even college scholarship athlete (very few are), and those team sport experiences can be had without sabotaging his relationship with his father.  Family court is so often a real disappointment.

I find it fascinating when SM's use the words "we" or "DH and I." I think SMs fight harder than the dads and it's the father's battle, not "ours." Let it go, and let him manage the battle if he wants to fight. 

Secondly, it's natural as a child gets older that they will develop friends and interests outside the purview of the immediate family that will interfere with the amount of time they spend with their parents, even in intact families. My DS is getting PREP SCHOOL invitations for lacrosse. I'm on Facebook laughing at the price tag and fellow parents of serious athletes are telling me to ask about scholarships. He is at lacrosse practice so much and then doing homework until midnight that I see him maybe 30 minutes out of a day. 

Sometimes you have to sacrifice your interests for your kid. I faithfully ride with a cycling club on Tuesday nights, but now that my 9th grader is on JV, if he has a home game on Tuesdays, my seat is in the bleachers, not on my bike. And it's completely true that the commitment ramps up as they get older, and it ramps up earlier for the talented ones. We are fully booked for weekend tournaments from the last weekend in June through the first weekend in August, and it's been that way for three years, so since he was 12. We have missed family vacations and family reunions. He will be required to do lacrosse camp during the weekdays in July and early August and then team practices and tryouts will start. My son's goal is to play D1 and this is the type of commitment that's required. He was playing three weekend tournaments during June and July starting in third grade. We still had our Augusts then. We lost August to JV soccer when he was 13 and going into 8th grade. 

It's a tough spot for a long distance custody agreement, but if your DH denies the kid his passion, he's going to resent him. Your DH may need to take vacation time and rent a cottage or hotel room where his child plays football in order to exercise his visitation rights  

This is all a whole different ball of wax if the child doesn't like or is actually a terrible at the sport. But if that's the case, he'll be cut and your DH won't need to make accommodations for visitation around the sport  

Remember, this is not a Two Musketeers battle  This is a DH battle. Take a deep breath and let it go.

Sorry, I well know how it feels to watch the  inevitable coming. Maybe as SS gets older it will become clear that he's not NFL material. Seems to me that sports are a great way to control the ex and make it seem like you are MOTY. 
 

The good news is that you are free and clear for this summer! Try not to worry about next year. Hopefully DH ignored the crap out of BM's warning. He can drop the rope with BM and no longer fight with her, while still hanging on to SS as long as possible. 
 

Also, don't be bothered by the poster above who knows nothing about parental alienation and hasn't been in your shoes. YOU know the truth of your situation even if others can't see it. 

Enrolled them in all sorts of sports thinking they were athletic.  Unless you define athletic as being very overweight and extremely tall for one's age then there was not an athletic cell in the entire lot of them.  In fact they were extremely awkward and klutzy not unlike the Gir.  But boy did they know how to showboat!

And yes both Chef and the Girhippo had fantasies of the skids being in professional sports.  Very much living vicariously through them.  Problem is the skids had no interest in sports other than watching video games and snacking 24/7 if that is a sport.  It was merely a social event for the Gir and her fellow coven members, errr siiiiiinnnnngle sooooccccceeeeeerrrrr mooooommmmms.  The skids had no friends because of their horrible personalities so it wasn't like they were gaining any social skills in sports, either.

Enrolling kids in multiple extracurricular activities such as Sports is a win-win-win for the HCGUBM.  It reduces bonding time with Dad and SM, makes it appear that the HCGUBM cares for the children, and it can also increase CS.

Tell that witch that SS can condition on Dad's time just as well as on her turf.  

The ONLY positive thing I can say about anything that has happened for us in court was sports were not allowed to interfere with parenting time. We are out of state too and this was the only "win" we have ever had. 

I don't know if you should fight it or not, we have been fighting for 6 years and just gave it up. I just hope that SS knows his dad loves him and tried. 

Goal post moving judges.