I'm sure some of you are aware of my situation with my bf's son (pleasd refer to my previous blog if not). I was wondering what your advice would be on how to tell my BF that I won't be buying his son any presents for Christmas or communicating with him any longer.

His son is 16 years old, a manipulate, deceptive, rude, disrespectful, delusional pathological liar who lives in denial of his own faults, makes excuses or lies when he's been caught doing something he shouldn't. I've had to put up with him for 5 years and have bent over backwards for him, caring for him, buying him gifts, helping him when he supposedly needed it but continues to behave this way towards me. He uses me and my bf for what benefits him but never has a genuine conversation or spends genuine time with me or my bf. He always does this through emotional manipulation and then in front of other people acts as if he doesn't know why we're mad or upset with him, he's done nothing wrong he is just sweet and innocent. obviously has issues from his alcoholic mother who lives in denial of her own problems.

More info in my previous blog but would like to know how to tell my bf seriously that I won't be doing anything anymore. I have told him in the past I won't buy his son Christmas presents because of how he's behaved but always caved and did it anyway because I felt bad. Now I've gone past the point of caring but don't know how to approach the situation seriously but not offensively. I don't want to upset my bf or cause problems between us. He has also said he won't buy his son anything because of how he's been but I know he will, he's never been consistent with dicipline and he always goes back on his consequences for his son.