Ok so I was here venting at the time about my BF's daughter.  I got away from that mess.  I have just found out that his daughter(16 in 2 months) has totally crossed all possible boundaries and he is sitting st home havign panic attacks becasuse she ran away instead of "allowing" her father to ground her.  This just goes to show that his failure to parent his daughter and BM's influence on his daughter is ruining his life and he is allowing it.  Well, here is the story:

He went on vacation without her for 4 days 3 nighta.  She did not want him going on vacation at all and did not believe he would go.  When he left she did the forbidden and invited Bm over to stay the duration of his absence because if he would not cancel his vacation to stay home with him she was going to do this because she can NOT handle being alone because of her "separation anxiety"..  BM was blocked from all contact and forbidden from his home.  BM went over and spent the entire time over there and went through his entire home.  BM also took the money his daughter was left for any emergencies.  His daughter then lied and told the world she was being punished for no reason because it wasn't her fault as usual.  Then she skipped school because she was outed as a liar.  At this point she took off before he got back and has not been seen since.  When she was informed that she was grounded she told him if he grounded her she was moving out to live with Craig ( a man in his late 30's early 40's) who magically appeared as her "Uncle".

I just have to say "WOW".  I am so happy to have gotten out of that mess when I did.  I just wish that it hadn't had to be this way.  Unfortunately some men do not ever learn how to run their own lives.  He's getting exactly what he earned from the way he allowed her to run his life.  I am LMAO because I am so relieved it is not my problem and upset he found the need to inform me of this event.  I mean I have to laugh or I'm gonna cry.  AT least I now know my predictions of it just getting worse were accurate and I know it is going to keep m getting worse, especially since BM keeps telling his daughter how she is right and can do these things becaus he has no right to stop her.  that BM even went so far as to call his family crying the blues about how he was abusing his daughter.  More than I ever wanted to deal with and more trouble than I will ever be willing to deal with.